aliciaharford23

Hello...

I am a slave seeking not just for anyone who calls himself a Master, not just anyone who hs toys to use on me but a sincere person frm the heart.

If there is really somthing i have learnt over the time, i have learnt to understand that most time it really takes more than what we write on the profile to portray who we really are. I could make use of the finest words from the most decietful place in my heart. if that happens, what is really then the sincerity in D/s all about.

I do not believe in writing so many things here to tell you who and what i am and how i could serve you better and all of that.

I could be real with you if you are, and i could really be a fake if that is what you are too. Ponder on this before you contact me.

and be intelligent enough to understand where i am coming from.

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Suffice to say, my perception on the shortness of bdsm relationships is predicated on the problems associated with people artificially attempting to hurry the process of getting to know each other up to the point that they, in essence, helped their relationships burn out much faster than they might have otherwise done. It also was about the idea that as we did that, we gave each other no time to internalize and develop an appreciation for the people we were meeting and so... at the first crisis, there was no well of intimacies and years-built reliance to pull from and poof... there went the relationships.

We in essence, were burning out our relationships by demanding so much from them that they could not measure up or keep up.

Add that to the whole infatuation addictions so many of us have (where we just love the newness of relationships but have no respect for or patience for or appreciation of the commonalities and calmness of long term relationships that we keep on running from one person to another to pursue and feed our infatuation addictions.
And I said I wanted no part of that. New relationships can be heady experiences but nothing beats the feelings of knowing someone and loving them and serving them for years.
Sure there are up and down times... but the up times are celebrations and the down times are opportunities to dig deep and be reminded of just how fortunate we are.



Alicia Harford