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Male Submissive, 41, Kuala Lumpur
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Male Submissive, 56, Boston, Massachusetts
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About Alden
Hello, I am Alden and I am a Dominant. I discovered that I was Dominant about 23 years ago. I was invited to a party and found my calling.
Being Dominant is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role. It is a state of being.
Over the past 23 years, I have sadly watched as many have taken being Dominant to mean a bully. I was taught that being a Dominant meant being honourable and respectful. In short, that being Dominant meant to be a Gentleman.
A ruffian or bully can intimidate people with their gruff manners and abruptness. This is not Dominance. Creating in someone the desire to obey requires a subtle seduction. It takes more than giving orders and tying someone up to inspire in them a desire to do as you wish and be at your side.
Being Dominant is not a replacement for having a personality. The fact of the matter is that Dominance is just another part of our overall personality. It is no replacement for wit, wisdom or personal hygiene.
Thank you for taking a moment to view my profile.
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