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Neophyte BBW Sub Seeking Dominant Older Man for LTR... I have ZERO desire for a one night stand, a “friend with benefits,” a “no strings attached” situation, or even following the prescribed rules when it comes to dating or having sexual relations. Absolutely no married or otherwise attached men looking to “play” need respond either. This means if you’re married or attached, don’t write me. Hello everyone and thank you for your interest in my post. I am a 40 year-old lady past my state of self-discovery ready put into play what I’ve discovered. I have found it difficult and often frustrating to communicate my breakthroughs to avoid any miscommunication. For the past year I have chosen to avoid men altogether but now believe it’s time reach out into the universe and hopefully pull back my soul mate. I am a confident, competent, and otherwise independent woman looking to finally depend on another. Friends describe me as outspoken, sassy, and somewhat spoiled as well as thoughtful, considerate and kind. In my past relationships, I found that the men lack the confidence to lead and find them indecisive and mentally lethargic. I am looking for a real relationship with a gentleman who desires a “1950’s type household,” where the man not only takes control in and out of the bedroom, he understands and has the freedom to do so. I believe it goes without saying that this real man also provides for his family’s safety, security and well-being. I want a man who is protective of those he cares about, understands situational awareness and desires the best for those in his life. When he considers what’s best for his significant other, he realizes that corporal punishment along with other disciplinary measures (see list below) are an ABSOLUTELY necessary part of the relationship. He has high expectations of me and willingly directs my path and environment so that I might realize a higher potential within than I thought possible. He is also able to control his addictive behaviors in that he DOES NOT use recreational drugs or tobacco and only drinks alcohol to moderation. I have a couple lifetimes of experiences in my short tenure on earth; that and a long list of strong male role models can make it hard for some men to connect with me. I believe I’m just your average girl next door, but was recently told that I am extraordinary and worth every, single second spent developing a relationship with. I know that special man is out there and my prose will immediately resonates within him.