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About Ainye
I have just joined this site. Please be patient while I take time to navigate and update this area.
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If you are at all considering me as a pet, there are a few things to know about me:
-I am pagan. If this is an issue with you, please leave now. If you would like to know details, please get to know me first. I will not change my faith and I will never submit when I am practicing my faith. Please understand this.
-I live with three boys: My kids- One guinea pig named Uriel, one guinea pig named Rain-, and my roommate, who is pretty much my best friend in the world.
-Just because I'm a submissive does not mean I will submit right away. I can observe protocol to a point and will show respect to one and all, but if there is not a basis of trust, I will not do as you say when you say it.
-I am not a sex toy or a slut. Please move along if this is what you seek and please refrain from propositioning me for no-strings-attached or one-night-only or anything short term. I'm seeking a lifetime Owner, not a quick fix.
-On the same note, please don't propose me for sex or ask for naked pictures of me. I don't want to move fast. In fact, I'd like to be wooed. I want to go on dates. I want to cuddle and not worry about being groped or fondled and such. I want to be treated like a girlfriend and a princess before ever getting into the submissive role- at least for a few months.
-I have some hard limits: Scat, Watersports, Tickling, and Bathroom Control. These are non-negotiable.
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While this is a relatively wide list, if you are still reading this, let me tell you about my good points, which should be an even longer one.
-I am a natural submissive. I live to serve and make another happy, as it completes me and makes me whole. It also helps me control my depression and with my self-esteem, though it's not crucial.
-I am intensely loyal. While I don't put up with abuse (that's why I have a safety word), I do stick by someone who has earned my trust and loyalty through quite a bit of the rough times. Betrayal, in my eyes, is the only thing to break this trust.
-While I don't really want to move away from my friends, I would be willing to relocate closer to the cities should things become more intimate and serious.
-On the subject of intimacy, while I do not have a large sex drive myself, I am willing to please without reaching pleasure myself if it makes my Owner happy. I would rather cuddle afterwards than get off anyways.
-I'm intensely loving and devoted. Think of me as a puppy that waits up for you and greets you when you arrive at home, and you'll have a good idea of how intense I tend to be.
-I am easily adaptable. Given the fact that I'm human and do make mistakes, I learn quickly and am generally able to correct my behavior with a warning or mild punishment, if I don't correct it long before then myself.
-While I don't have as impressive of a list on here as I do on (under the same name), and while I am rather inexperienced in some areas, my tastes run far and wide and my limits are relatively few. If it's not a hard limit, I can probably be brought around to the idea (the idea of forced-lactation is a wonderful example. At first I was rather firm, but the idea has grown on me since) eventually. Either that or I will discover it as a hard limit and let my Owner know as soon as I do.
-I only use my safety word if absolutely necessary. To date, in my limited experience, I have used my safety word only around six times- when my pain threshold was breached, when I became distressed and needed some time to calm down before continuing, and when one of my hard limits was being breeched.
-Finally, for now, I will openly communicate with my Owner should something need to be discussed. I will respect and love my Owner with all I am, but I refuse to get into a relationship where I am afraid to speak and let someone know what is going on in my head. That becomes unhealthy and I've had my share of unhealthy relationships.
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If this list is among the things you seek, and the previous one has not pushed you away or scared you off, then please feel free to contact me. I will write out a little more of what I am looking for in an Owner at another time, but for now, I am searching for someone (male or female) whom I am attracted to, who is preferably between the ages of 19 and 32 (if you are older you may have a chance, but would have to be very impressive and exactly what I'm looking for, thank you) who is relatively (or at least looks) in shape. I'm sorry but if I'm not attracted to you, I will not consider you, as looks does, unfortunately, come into account when seeking a lifetime partner.
Thank you for taking the time to read this,
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