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About AIIORNOTHING
I am an intelligent, well educated, mentally and emotionally stable Mature guy with a very good sense of humour, a vivid imagination and a very natural assertive sexual streak. I am who I am and dont need to prove myself to anyone and I say what I mean and mean what I say. So If you are an experienced submissively minded female or have submissive cravings that you need to act upon and would like to find a genuine, reliable, Dominant male who will take the time and effort to help you Investigate your desires then the following may be of interest to you. Ideally you will be looking for a full interpersonal relationship and commitment when sufficient trust and confidence has been built up by both parties. The foundations of the relationship will be based upon the development of a close strong friendship and a deep understanding of each others psychological and sexual needs and Desires. The ability to talk openly and have a good laugh with one another is absolutely essential. I have the utmost respect for a submissive female because she is putting not only her trust but also her physical as well as her emotional and psycological well being in the hands of her Master. I regard it as one of my responsibilities to her to ensure that such Trust is well founded since without this it would impossible to allow The relationship to gradually progress into those areas initially agreed to be out of bounds. Indeed the loss of this trust would render the relationship untenable. Unlike many male Dom’s who expect to get a response to a short undeive message of the 'let me tie you up, beat you and rape you, bitch' variety, I will not even consider a meeting unless I feel that we have sufficient in common and also have similar long-term objectives in order to make it worth while for Both of us. This may seem smug or foolish to some or perhaps even arrogant to others but it is no more than an expression of a practical truth. I have come to this position through play-meetings with individuals who were not interested in a relationship and, frankly, while mildly enjoyable they did not give the deep satisfaction that I crave because there was no continuity involved. The right sub for me will understand what I mean when I say that I will cherish you, adore you, love you and control you. You should also be able to see through the apparent paradox that while I am assertive I am also a very 'giving' person so that during my more romantic moods you can expect to receive unsolicited gifts and other pleasant surprises. None of this, however, should be taken as a sign of weakness, only of true affection. I am very broadminded and unshockable and there is probably very little that I would say no to or refuse to do if was something you expressed as a desire. I can be very cruel when required but never maliciously violent. I am not about to go into a list of activities that I would do with you because to do so would be trite at this stage as we both know the score here.. All I will stress is that I very much enjoy the psychological aspect of the D/S relationship and will be looking to investigate this particular side of my own psyche. I have no racial prejudices, indeed I like learning about other cultures at first hand, therefore contact is welcome from females of any ethnic background. Height is not an issue nor is your age. Personality is, of course, extremely important so you must have a pleasant disposition, a good sense of humour and an honest desire to explore your submissive nature. I have no desire to ~break~ you or turn you into little more than a completely subserviant automaton so it does not matter if you have a strong outgoing personality in fact that is a bonus for me. I do not anticipate immediate success but if the above does hold some interest for you then you have nothing to lose by dropping me a reply. In private correspondence I will be willing to enter into discussion about any aspect of the relationship frankly and openly and expect the same from you. So if this does picque your interest This is no time to be shy! I am more than happy to meet for a chat over a coffee but I will not try to dominate straight away on the first meet as it is just a meet to see if there is chemistry there. In fact I will be a gentleman and caring etc etc but don't let that fool you as I can be an evil sadistic Bastard with a capital "B" when and if I get to know you and the mood takes me. But I have in the past met up with potential subs/partners who have unrealistic expectations of a first meet. |
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