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	About Aibo Laissez le bon temp roule! You don't want to read long paragraphs? Then you got the short version up here right now. Control, power exchange, the mental connection... 2; My profile list 'friends only' now. There's someone I am seeing and we're trying to work out the details. Its not the only interest I have in life, but I do consider it to be of major importance for a relationship. And I am not into the shallow side of this, so I have no interest for any transient 'affair', but for a long relationship that would provide the time to reach the really rewarding level of this. For such a longer relation I am monogamous, not for moral reasons or even less religion - it's just how I am wired, ok? :) Secondly I do not swim in the shallow end of the pool as far as BDSM is concerned. But rather going for the deep end, this does not mean I am that heavily into corporal punishment but rather in the level and manner of control. That could be in the manner of one armbinder, chains and irons, straitjacket, cage etc. Gear is not all important though, but they're just the means for creating the kind of situation I prefer. And that is for me to be in control. With the right person who have a deeper interest I could imagine going for quite a level of far reaching control and ification. I have been giving the idea quite some thought, and we've done shorter time excursions into this realms which only have triggered my interest to explore that side further. Older text below if you feel like reading Please note I'm not into online, cyber, webcam, fantasy or whatever. Life is to precious to waste in front of the computerscreen, and that go for B, D, s & m as well. ;) But that do not exclude me from making smalltalk here, I currently do that here with 2 females, who sadly happen to be taken, but admit I do keep a lookout for that someone special. Some decades of this have brought me to be like that. Yet every person are unique, and it could very well be like starting fresh from the start - in fact it could be quite wonderful! And its only when you get to know someone well you can take a walk in the deeper realms that gives so much more..... than any transient acquaintance. Two major relationships, 12 and 10 years respectively plus a shorter one that lasted about a year. So I am what some label a 'lifestyler' so I wont keep my partner hidden, or the relationship secret. Unless the female would ask it to be so. Sometimes people note that part of lifestyler. Like when I had been giving some pointers to one girl when we were travelling together to a BDSM party early december 2006 she commented with a surprised voice 'you never cease to be a Master' and she meant that in a positive sense. :) My interests span many areas from Art, Cars, History, Music The Outdoors, Science, Travel etc etc. And its been said I have a curious and inquisitive mind. To me all this go together with my erotic interest also, I have been a member of 3 BDSM societies, but only one currently, their names and websites only told on request.

This proves my point that censoring is stronger and more widespread in USA than any other country - I am now also banned on Collarspace chat.

I guess they will get my profile also soon enough, as that matter to me. Hah!
I have the QQ and trough that also the mail to the Chinese girl so go fuck yourself!

Profile photo also removed from my gallery, for several reasons.

If I tell you my second name - don't assume it is my mail you find with a Google search!
Don't mail anyone with it.
There have been a very big mess 1 of February when 'someone' I will not reveal the nick or handle mailed 'someone' here who had very big problems figuring out who I were.

Secondly there's been a case of an attempted ID theft - it's dealt with and the person who attempted this will prosecuted to the full extent of the law,

I have been watching Larva, a set of short films that's been collected on Youtube they will provide hours of fun.
Slapstick humour isn't dead, it have only been hibernating until Larva came around.

So is this child safe?
Yes I think it is, the question is if Larva is parent safe.

Is this christian safe?
Actually it is, one end panel show the tomato the larva had eaten now with gloria and mantle, this "soulmato" or whatyamallcallit kissing him back from the astral world and showing love - so even vegetables have an afterlife in Larva.

Is this Disney safe?
Definitely not, your enjoyment of Disney films will be severely diminished since you will suffer flashbacks from Larva and always imagine that your beloved Disney characters will be equally disgusting with their tongues, snot and nostril tentacles when they are offscreen.

Is this Metalhead safe?
At least some episodes are, there's one where the Dungbeetle, plays the ?? (Guzheng) so hard he breaks the strings - and that attitude should be heavy metal enough for most of us.

Is this gay safe?
Perhaps not, on most times when the larva or insects accidentally hug, smootch or kiss each other, they get upset and scream.

Is this BDSM safe?
Absolutely, the Larva often get whipped, burned, scolded, and get generally cruel to each other, hits and spanks wildly and even get spanked by inanimate things (like the bush waving by the wind in the winter episode) Taken together the Larva is a BDSM delight! :)

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In the complete fallout of 'The Last Jedi' I've had the most fun trolling the net in ...a very long time.
The last entry happened after someone made a post about missing Twi'lek's in the new film.
To which I replied that how could anyone in their sane mind suggest anything such when Science fiction, Disney and The omnipotent PC megaforce stand for the must upright and stiff values and only a total pervert would suggest having a race that automatically, often and without hesitation wish to be slaves. ;p

This site need to get to grips with the major issues of Paedophilia, Incest and Bestiality.
Yes being a major kinkster do not mean that I don't have any moral or standards!

I'm back in business so to speak, and making some last moment changes on a new item in wood that someone special to me will try out in a few days.

Check on my profile on to see what it is and perhaps even a snap of it in use, this site is not as good for such that we cannot have captions to any image presented, neither that visitors can make comments to anything presented here.

Some random thoughts.

I have earlier said that one reason that BDSM relationships do not last for longer time is that one or both of those involved often are kick seekers.

Something that puts a strain even to the most tolerant of couples.

But there's also a second reason.

The BDSM kind of relationship do need love or affection even MORE than the vanilla one.
That's a fact most don't appear to realize, and the cause that most relationships in BDSM do not last for life - a sad fact.
But it is not possible to keep this up the same way as regular married couples, that are able to move on even when the flame have died.
.......BDSM cannot function in a lukewarm state.....

I have met a most fantastic submissive, and spent some time in her home. Yes we ended up at her place on the first meeting. A level of trust I appreciate very much.
I can only add that I hope this will develop further from this great start.
Distance is one issue, but from the comments I gotten from her in mail now I am back home, she obviously feel the same way. And thats gives me the best feeling I've had about any person for a very long time. =)

I view my submissive in the same way as one astronaut (the kind of the past to be exact). I bolt her into t he capsule and press the button to send her on a grand journey.
Not in space but to subspace of course.
Upon returning I release her straps in the pilot chair. Debrief her on what the trip have been like.
Now I cannot offer a parade, but at least treat her with a good dinner.?

I had a female visitor today and checked back to read the profile..
And I cannot stop me from making a comment on the hairraising story told there:

It seem that a few have confused their most twisted fantasies with reality, sure I have some twisted fantasies myself. But I am fully aware of the difference between a dream and what might be feasible in the real world.
Now it had a good ending, since the woman in question pulled out and refused the slave contract offered.
Yet to some this lifestyle becomes to something like a drug.
And just like with the drug addicts, some people looses their footing and sense of whats right and whats not.

Being dominant, does not mean to be selfish and certainly not to be completely out of touch of the needs of the submissive partner.

Now at times the need of the sub takes over to such a degree that you get the feeling that you mistakenly taken the service door instead of the one at front.
But that happens at times, you always have the option to perform that service in the cruel manner you so much desire. :)

And yes, Merry christmas!

Hello

Lately I have been feeling very romantic and cruel at the same time, not that I have had anyone to express those feelings on. Far from it, but this said for a laff, that I got romantic feelings about BDSM at times.

I would have been eminently fit to give someone that feeling of excitement, without responsibility, being taken cared of, being a loved slave. All those things are part of the grater whole of submission.

Without any partner I have expressed all that on the Internet instead, and even written a new story.
As a sidenote: I think it is those feelings about having no responsibility and care from the Master, that also triggers some to go into ageplay.
Not that it is my thing, but I can see that it is a mode not far from what I do and like. Since that it something that comes from leaving the responsibilities as one adult person.
Not saying that I feel in any way better than those who idulge in ageplay. As for me, and when I am in that mode of feeling, it turns out to be even more twisted in fact. Times when I might want to do kitten, puppy or ponyplay.
Yet all this seem to be that the strong interest we all have for these things, are not only the erotic, but that also the caretaking reflex some of us have, albeit somewhat misguided when it is applied in BDSM, it still have a significant part in the satisfaction I get and explains the continued interest over the years.

All this have brought be astray of from the things I had thought of writing this time.
What was on my mind was a conversation I had with a single mother on the ideas of submission and dominance and the roots.
We both agreed that it wasnt openly widespread in the past.
In my view this got started in the 1940's when women really started to become the equal of men.
When the children of that generation grew up, the girls of that generation could express their wishes and needs for the first time, and their parents would not protest but even support them for doing so.
The sexual liberation, flower power and whatever was the result. And then only then had we taken the step that those of a submissive (and for that matter also dominant nature) for the first time could do what their inner nature asked.
So that people in general now can live out the need they carry within, isnt something we had for any long time. It is something that surfaced in the generation born around 1960 and onward.

Have been in this new city for some months now, and I had a female friend living with me for two months here, which was nice.
Sadly she have returned home now, but it was a nice summer flirt of-a-sort. :D
We went to a BDSM event once here and a friend of hers tagged along, though I have to say it was a mixed experience.
Else from that its mostly works that fills my days, but one need to stay focused to gets the finds to build the kind of lifestyle I intend to have.
To get a partner to live it together with is somewhat of a secondary priority, on the other hand I dont complain since I gotten at least some of it recently.
In short life is good but busy.

I have been dating someone for nearly 2 years, someone who had a nice interest for these things, but it never could develop into any true relationship for several reasons, and now it ended.

So do I feel bad about it?
Yes, even though it never was to be, it doesnt feel good at all, but I live trough this.

Some thoughts again.

Some years back someone got intrigued why I spoke about that much about love in my previous BDSM relationship. The question is a bit moot, Yet I will return to that subject again, since I happened upon a phrase when I chatted with someone about this. So here goes......

I only want and anyone really should do these things to someone I have feelings for, affection, perhaps even love.

In my case love grow stronger because the girl agrees that I do all these things to her. Its so wonderful.

When you get to the point where you start to push limits, doing things she don't like foremost, but still agrees with since I like it.

My love grow even stronger, since she does those things for me.

And thats why the affection between the two of us grows so strong in this kind of relationship. We have a deal between us, a deal about give and take. The trust and affection.

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