Unfortunately, my encounters on sex related venues are infrequent at best, whereas on vanilla dating sites I seem to be in great demand.  I?ve asked a couple of my kinky friends about this phenomena and they say there just aren?t very many older Dommes online in BC and those few who are here aren?t looking for older submissive men.  Of course, over the years, I?ve tried to incorporate some of my kinky needs into my vanilla relationships with varying results.   On alt. I use the same handle and I have met some very nice people who share similar sexual desires.  I am appreciative of those experiences but I am still looking for my Domme.  Although I cherish my sexuality, I must have more in common with my woman than good sex.

For instance, I met a younger woman, on alt. who was really into having her feet worshipped, which, of course, was fine with me.  She loved my oral techniques and we had very hot sex.  She was fairly dominant in bed (which I loved) she pinched my nipples as hard as I could stand (that really turned me on) and allowed me complete oral access to her body (yes!).  I liked her smell and the taste of her intimate parts.  I licked, sucked, not only her feet and toes, but much of her body also, including her armpits (I love that).  Finally, as she came in my mouth she relaxed her bladder and released her urine.  I tried to drink it all.  Can?t remember if I ever did cum that night.  Anyway, here?s what really stands out for me:  She said, ?thanks for your surrender, I needed that.?  In the end, I realized that she wasn?t ?the? woman for me but that particular experience of hearing her gratitude for my submissive sexual services was much greater than the thousands of orgasms I had previously experienced in my life.  She appreciated my need to sexually submit and serve !  Makes me think I would probably do well orally serving a dominant women, especially if she kept me in chastity for periods of time.