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About Agendasetter
Seeking subs for play and interesting times. I have some interesting theories on submission, and like the psychological sides of exploration into the darker sides of your sexuality. I think such play is empowering and let's people explore what they think about themselves in relation to society and their limits. I am not a "theatrical" dom who is into mainstreaming and outifts, I seek to explore a more real side of the lifestyle, not something soccer mom's do to make their husbands erect on a weekend. If you seek to explore who you are, what you are, and how you can draw strength from what most would describe as weakness... we should chat.
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boredom... where are all the fun subs :) |
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I am finding more of the mainstreaming movement (and some real dorks) in lots of my conversation so far... subs who are very much into control to the extent that they are really doms or hidden switches... they submit when their control variables are heeded and then re-exert their control when things begin to move a different direction.
Such things are not submission in the sense of giving yourself up to exploration, they are fetish role play and do not really contribute to a sexual identity - they only contribute to an orgasm.
There is a place between 24/7 and "scening" at your local event where the lifestyle can be embraced and empower you as a sub, but it is not in your control it is in giving yourself up to being led into the abyss where you emerge as something different from the journey. That empowerment comes from actual and psycological submission, not from the rigors of control where you find a place of complete safety.
It is in the risk, and the conflict and the immersion in experience of exploring things away from the mainstream that you evolve...it has always been that way.
Simply put, its like skydiving, it can't be made completely safe, and if it was ... then it would not hold the thrill anymore. If you don't really cheat death to dive from an airplane, why would you ever jump? The window seat has a good view.
Taming such a thing takes its thrill out...
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Seems that there are some people that wish to discuss a different view of things... and cross a path into a new place.
Very good... come forth and let the exploration begin and a new you to emerge. Do not be shy... it is diving into that which is hidden where you are lurking...
and being you is all you seek...
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So I am looking in a new place.. my friend who is active in this community let me know about its existence... I am a different type of dom, and we disagree about many things.
We'll see how this works out. Seems that the theatrical group community has taken over and the mainstreamers are having their way with things. Is there room for the doms of psycological exploration... who empower through training and a more emotional type of discipline... is intellectualism gone to be replaced with legalism and contracts and rules?
We shall see!
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