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Male Switch, 44, Nashua, New Hampshire
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Female Submissive, 21
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Male Submissive, 40
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About AffectionateDom1
I'm looking for a girl who is not just a submissive or slave, but someone I can care for and love, hang out with and be goofy, hold and be intimate with. I have plenty of kinks (oral servitude/cock worship, collars and leashes, hard spankings, breast play, ass play, roleplay, others), but I need a girl who can also enjoy non-kinky intimacy (and non-kinky interests), even if the D/s part of our relationship is handled strictly. Part of that is probably because I feel like I'm a protector type, which also ties in with an interest in Daddy-daughter role play (this is not a required kink, it just comes to mind in how I want to hold and be affectionate with my girl). I want to care for and be there for my girl even if I enjoy the roughness as well. Also tied in with my protector type feelings I enjoy when a girl is clingy or codependent, so if you ever have such feelings don't hide them! I love touch and cuddling, all the time. And being close in general. As a result I don't like endless online or phone conversations with little getting together in person. Communication is great, but it should be in support of a real 1 on 1 relationship. I enjoy orders and rules (a 1950s household sounds appealing to me, and I've enjoyed obedience training in previous relationships), but am quick to describe myself as reasonable in these things - I can be firm but will not overreact or expect you to adhere to rules you didn't know or understand. Tied in with that I also like to be relied on for decisions, even if you simply need help choosing what to have at a restaurant. I have experience owning a slave in an LTR. I am looking for a serious long term relationship. Most of all I'm hoping to find a permanent relationship.
Personality/Interests: Despite being Dominant I'm also very easy going, which I think is the source of my reasonableness. I don't like drama. I love intelligent conversation, saying occasionally oddball things for a laugh, and many nerdy endeavors. Yeah, I'm a nerd as well - I can easily fix/modify your computer, web site, etc., but I'm not the type dwelling in their parents' basement (I own the house with the basement I'm in!). I enjoy a wide variety of music, basically anything but country and opera, and love to find new artists and genres. Mainly I listen to various forms of rock/alternative and electronic. In the car I often listen to NPR, or more often recently an audiobook. I used to be an avid reader, but have fallen out of practice. I decided to try an audiobook to get myself back in to the swing of things, and I'm surprised how much I'm enjoying it (I used to sort of look down on audiobooks as "not real reading"). I love to cuddle up for movies and TV. In general I love to learn or learn of new things, and share things with others, whether it's facts or entertainment. I'm also an art lover, and have more paintings (some are originals) than photos in my house.
Sexual/Interaction: I love a girl who wants to be a good girl, whether it's in roleplay or not. I enjoy clinginess and codependency, and as much closeness as possible. This doesn't mean needing to call or text each other all the time, more in terms of how I like to interact in person. Oral servitude/cock worship, collars and leashes, hard spankings, breast play, ass play, and roleplay are some of my favorites, but I'm open to (and enjoy) many other things. I like mental bondage because it's my words and will having direct control over you, but I also enjoy using restraints. Some treat spankings as something a sub should be able to take a lot of without reacting strongly, but I disagree - I like seeing the reaction as I swat your ass, with hand or implements. I like seeing how it affects you. I can also be a little bit of a sadist. Though not necessary I do enjoy playing with pain sluts. :) In general getting a reaction is something I enjoy, and that includes pleasing my girl - I intend to give back to my submissive, not always just "take". I want to fulfill your desires as well, and give you great orgasms, even more so if you have a hard time cumming. Though I'm also curious about chastity, as an extreme form of orgasm control. In terms of the base vanilla acts I most of all love receiving oral. There are few things I enjoy more than a girl who will ask or beg for my cock and cum in her mouth.
In my interests I marked only two things as "Lives For", because although many things may be negotiable (as long as there's good general overlap in our interests) these two I think are essential in any relationship. Body Worship was marked because it's the closest CM has to Oral Servitude/Cock Worship. |
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