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About af183
Hello...
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My greatest desire is to serve, to please and to fulfil your every need.
I am a natural submissive who is looking for an intimate, monogamous relationship which can start off online but will eventually move offline, with a caring but strict male Dominant. I am part little, part servant submissive. I am not a slave or a puppy/kitten/pet. Most of the time I act my age with occasional child like behaviour.
I am looking for something online to begin with but would eventually need to meet up and move into real life. Distance is not a problem, if our relationship was serious enough I would be willing to relocate to live with you whether that is in the UK or overseas.
What are my kinks and interests?
I can split my kinks/fetishes/interests into 2 categories; sexual and non-sexual.
Sexual
Consensual Non-Consent Rape Fantasies
This is not something I have explored yet, only discussed with previous partner, but nothing came of it.
The idea of being (consensually) forced into doing something I pretend not wanting to do is very arousing to me. The thought that someone wants me that much to (consensually) force themselves on me, plays hugely into my psychological need to be desired.
The feeling of being physically overpowered, man-handled and held down are all extremely arousing. To struggle against arms holding me down, to squirm under the weight on top of me, a futile attempt to escape their grasp.
Urolagnia (Watersports)
I don't have much of an explanation where this kink comes from only that I find the idea of watching my Sir pee and being peed on to be very arousing. I find it to be a very intimate thing, a way for my Sir to mark me as His.
I’m not too sure if I would enjoy drinking pee as I have never tried it before but would like to explore that if possible in the future.
Sadomasochism
I do not play heavily in this area and only find certain areas as arousing. I enjoy pain caused by my Sir without toys the most, using only His own body to inflict it. I find this more intimate and thus more arousing. Things like spanking, biting, light scratching, light slapping, choking and hair pulling.
I do not find much arousal from impact play, though it is not a limit for me and have found enjoyment out of it if it pleases my Sir.
Anal Play
I enjoy and find pleasure in receiving anal play, including manual and oral stimulation, anal penetration by toys such as butt plugs and anal sex.
I also enjoy giving anal play if my Sir would enjoy that, including manual and oral stimulation though not anal penetration of any kind including pegging.
Oral Play
I absolutely love giving oral. Head, blowjobs, sucking cock, whatever you want to call them, I love everything about them. It makes me very aroused and I derive a lot of pleasure from it. I would gladly give my Sir oral whenever he asked for it or even when He doesn’t and he makes me beg for His cock to be forced down my throat and my face to be fucked until he came over my face.
The tastes, the smells, the sounds He makes… Oh, the moans and gasps, how He tells me what a good girl I am, it gets me dripping.
Sensory Deprivation/Sensation Play
Limiting one or more senses to heighten others. I am only comfortable with using blindfolds to restrict sight, earplugs or headphones to restrict hearing, gags to restrict talking and the use of restraints to restrict movement.
I do not feel comfortable using nose plugs to restrict my sense of smell and breathing ability, mummification, hoods or gas masks or temperature play using hot wax or ice cubes.
Bondage
I am very inexperience with bondage and feel I would have to explore it more in depth to make my mind up on whether or not I like certain things. I have an interest in rope bondage and possibly leather restraints but not so so interested in metal or chain bondage.
It is something that arouses me and I find pleasure in struggling against restraints but the more advanced and technical aspects of bondage I would have to experience before I could form an opinion on.
Dirty Talk
I am very audio orientated when it comes to being aroused, I absolutely love moaning, grunting, growling, gasping, heavy breathing, whispers of pleasure under His breath. Being called a good girl sends shivers up my spine, if you want me to do something for you, just start it off with ‘Be a good girl and..’ and on completion reward me with a ‘Good girl’.
That stern confidant tone that He uses whenever He gives me a command, whether sexual or not, and the pleasure in His voice when I have pleased Him can in it’s own be a reward.
Roleplay
I enjoy roleplaying in many different types of scenes such as Teacher/student, Daddy/daughter, Boss/secretary, Husband/cheating wife, etc. I also enjoy some light Ageplay though I don’t enjoy acting like a child, just a little younger than my natural age.
Non-Sexual
*Note: the non-sexual side of BDSM is hugely important to me, maybe even more so than the sexual side even though this sections is considerably shorter than the sexual.
Domestic Servitude
I am a service-oriented submissive, this plays a lot into domestic service. This is very psychological to me and give me huge pleasure knowing that I am useful to my Sir, can provide for His needs and please Him.
This can include completing housework and housekeeping, carrying out chores, errands and tasks assigned to me by my Sir and being my Sir’s handmaid. I do not enjoy serving as furniture or for display purposes.
Structured Routine and Rules with a Reward/Discipline System
I find great pleasure in following a strict and structured routine and rules system, put in place by my Sir to give him more control over my daily activities and how I live my life, devoted to my Sir.
For example, having my Sir choose the underwear and clothes I should wear that day, setting a time to wake up and go to sleep, kneeling before my Sir during certain activities.
What are my limits?
Soft Limits
Polyamory/Swinging/Swapping/Sharing/Open Relationships
I become quite protective over my Sir and I am very greedy and need of His attention. I cannot get this in a poly or open relationship and can end up getting very jealous that I’m not enough for Him, so they could never work for me.
I would not want to share my Sir nor want Him to share me with anyone.
The only situation it could work, would be in a training and/or mentoring relationship instead of a romantic relationship, hence it being a soft and not hard limit.
Public Play
I do not find the risk of being caught or playing in public arousing. I feel like having to be discreet doesn’t allow for full pleasure than can be found in private. Being in a public place doesn’t add anything to a scene and if anything, it can take away from it.
That being said, wearing a collar in public would bring me enjoyment. I would be proud to wear it and show everyone that I belong to my Sir. Very subtle and discreet public play would arouse me if it was treated as foreplay for a scene in private later on.
Humiliation and Degradation
The idea of being humiliated in certain ways makes me a little uncomfortable and I do not derive any pleasure or arousal from it. Though some ways, like spanking for example, I do get arousal and pleasure from. It is usually the heavier humiliation that I dislike, such as verbal insults, especially concerning my physical appearance, I would consider on the very edge of hard and soft limits for me.
I have put it as a soft limit as I think it could be used as an effective punishment for discipline when used properly. See Hard Limits below for an expansion of the types of humiliation I cannot tolerate.
Petplay
I do not like the idea of acting or being treated like an animal or find it arousing. Some aspects of petplay outside the context of petplay I can find arousing such as wearing a collar and leash and wearing a tail. But that’s about as far as it goes and hence why it is a soft limit and not a hard limit.
I am not a puppy, kitty, pony or bunny, please don't expect me to act like that. I don't find the idea of eating from a bowl or sleeping in a cage arousing at all.
Bruises and Temporary Visible Marks
Temporary visible marks should be avoided as they can be suspicious to others and are rather unwanted. Things like bruises should be avoided on places such as the neck, arms, legs and other places that would be visible while wearing clothes.
Things like handprints caused from spanking are fine, light bite marks and light scratch marks that will fade within a few hours are also fine.
Hard Limits
Scat, Blood, Wax and Vomit
Just no, no, no and no. These are 4 things that I do not get aroused by and would not ever be comfortable exploring.
Knife play, Gun play, Needle play and Electric Play
These are again 4 things that I do not get aroused by, if anything they make me uncomfortable. They present a risk of danger that I do not enjoy.
Latex and Rubber
I do not find any arousal from the sight of or wearing latex or rubber clothing and would not be interested in doing so.
Fisting
This does not arouse me and again makes me uncomfortable to even think about.
Humiliation and Degradation
Public humiliation I am completely uncomfortable with, especially around friends and family. Being forced to do things that would cause me embarrassment, laughed at, mocked or ridiculed are a no go.
Anything involving money and financial humiliation.
Neglect and Prolonged Pain/Restriction
I would not like to be bound or chained for long periods of time without supervision. I would not like to be left outside or in a place I would feel uncomfortable in for long periods of time without supervision. I would not like to be out of contact for prolonged periods of time with warning and reason. I do not want to be treated like garbage, subhuman or like I have to earn your attention and if I don’t, I would be ignored.
This may seem like common knowledge not to do these things, but I just like to make a point of saying it for clarity.
So what am I looking for?
If you have made it this far, that is good. That means we could possible be a good match. You are probably now wondering the kind of person I am looking for.
Part Daddy, part Sir but 100% loving, caring and safe. My ultimate goal is to find someone I can devote my life to, someone I can care for and who can care for me.
I'm not that restrictive of the person, on what you enjoy, your personality etc. That's what makes everyone unique as long as you can accept and respect my limits. What matters the most is that our ultimate goals and ambitions aline, I would love to be a housewife and a homemaker. I want that white picket fence and freshly cut grass.. okay maybe that's not actually what I want but along those lines of being happy with someone I love.
I don't want to jump head first into a relationship, so to start off I'd rather keep things vanilla and non-sexual, become friends and take small steps to build the relationship. Being sexually compatible with someone is important, but if there is nothing but sex, the relationship would fall apart.
Physical attraction is also important to me and honestly would play a part in if the relationship would work out or not. I want to crave my Dominant physically and mentally. I know that attraction can grow with time, but there has to be at least something there to begin with though. If you do not have a photo of your face on your profile, I would much appreciate it if you could send me a photo of yourself, fully clothes including your face and I would gladly send one back to see if the attraction is there, once I know you are legit.
A quick note about height, this is on things that I am quite shallow about. If you're shorter than me (6ft), it's a really huge turn off.
Distance shouldn't be an obstacle in the beginning, don't let that restrict us in a world where distant travelling is cheap and easily accessible. Nor age, though I would prefer someone younger than around 30, though that's only a guideline.
If I have interested you or you have any questions, please feel free to message me.
A word of caution;
Do not send me any NSFW photos, if you do I will ignore your message.
Do not demand that I submit to you within the first message you send me, the answer will be no and I will ignore you, that is not how this works.
Do not send me a copy and pasted message or only a few line, if you do I will ignore your message, a little effort is needed. A 'Hey, how're you?' is little effort.
Do not send me a message if you are already in a relationship, I am only looking for a monogamous relationship, sorry.
Do not send me a message looking for sex, online or offline as the answer will be no, that is not what I am looking for but keep looking, I am not who you seek!
I am only looking for serious replies, please take that into consideration before contacting me.
Thank you for taking the time to visit and read my profile.
x
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