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Where do I begin? My name is Lux. I'm fairly new to this lifestyle. I became aware of it a few years back through a couple friends. I was a bit put off and mildly curious at the same time. Overtime that curiosity grew. This is my way of getting my feet wet and exploring this lifestyle.
**I put "submissive" as my description because I can be submissive depending on the partner. I also have dominant characteristics and tendencies. I am not a "true" submissive. I am not into anything extreme. I don't fancy humiliation or degradation. I greatly enjoy sensual domination. I am not into discussing BDSM in the first ten seconds of talking. If you wish to get to know me, then do so. Going directly to BDSM upon first chatting will surely have me lose interest real quick.**
So, onto the good stuff. What am I about? I'm pretty damn straight forward, charming, sarcastic, intelligent, witty, cynical, sweet, and seductive (or so I've been told). I'm just awesome all-around. I'd like to think I have a dominant side, but that will take some exploring.
I'm currently looking to make new friends and possibly a companion to help me explore this new lifestyle. Also, I crave a deep mental connection. What I want most is a long term relationship with a strong mental, emotional and perhaps spiritual connection (inquire if you're curious).
A little more about me ...
1. Turn offs:
Bible-thumpers. I have no tolerance for religious exclusivism and fundamentalism. Zilch.
Pick up lines
Text speak and lazy typing/writing (I make exceptions for "lol," "lmao" and a few others)
Willful ignorance
Superficiality
Asshattery
Dumbassery
Turn ons (though I'm reluctant to call it that):
Intelligence
Humility
Compassion
Sarcasm
Good sense of humor
Intelligent conversation
Badassery -- like the kind seen in awesome action flicks! (Think Linda Hamilton -- Sarah Connor in Terminator 2 [I want to be like her when I grow up!] and Liam Neeson in Taken.)
Tattoos -- what can I say, I'm a chick that loves ink
2. I'm a movie junkie. I love sci-fi, action, independent, foreign, fantasy, suspense/thriller, and psychological horror. I also like a good comedy and rom-com. I'm pretty easy going and laid back. Other hobbies, I used to be really into photography, but I don't have much time for it anymore. Debating is one of my favorite pastimes. I love a good philosophical and religious debate. I'm quite adept in that area. Just sayin'.
3. I'm pretty warm and likable once you get to know me. My matter-of-fact tone may be off-putting at first, but don't let that fool you, I really am a genuine and sincere person. At least, I like to think so.
4. I'm just looking to make new friends and possibly that one special friend/companion. That is not code for friends with benefits ... yet. Just gettin' that out there now. It is probably safe to assume some of you are curious about my marital status and how that fits in. Feel free to inquire should we strike up a conversation (this excludes messages like "hit me up boo," "how u doin sexy thang" and others of similar ilk.)
5. I don't do drama and games. I have neither the patience nor desire to deal with either.
P.S., for those wondering what I'm mixed with, I'm black (with some Cherokee and Choctaw) and white (Italian, Irish and English).
P.P.S., I'm not looking for men significantly older than me. I prefer to date men in their mid 30's to early 40's. |
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