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Hetero Male Master, 49,  PortChester, New York
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aegis23 - photo 1
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aegis23 - photo 3

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I am a lifestyle dominant in lower Westchester (just outside NYC). I am a part of the community, co-running a local munch and attending events in NYC, Westchester, and up-state. In other words, I go out and meet real people in the real world.

I am currently looking for a submissive female who wishes to learn about the lifestyle while serving. I am a jolly sadist, I can beat you mercilessly while reminding you that *FUCK* is not, in fact, a safeword.

In the world of BDSM, while I consider rope my first love, I am at heart a reaction junkie. Its not so much what I am doing that is important, but your reactions that I feed off. Fear, pain, arousal, wanting, loathing ... that is where I get off.

Since there have been questions The woman in my second additional photo is part of a local Ms couple Ive played with. She is quite the masochist, and a joy to work with. The picture is posted with their permission.

This should give you a glimpse into my outlook. If you think you might fit, please do reach out.

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 Dominant Male


 New York

 5' 9"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Breast Play

 Rock Music





 Canes and Crops

 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial




 Arcade Games

 Science Fiction


 Lifestyle BDSM


 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Seventies Music


 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining


 Musical Theater



 Electrical Play

 Fire Play



 Massage (Getting)


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation



 Wax play

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Comedy Shows



 Intellectual Discourse





 Old Guard


 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass

 Classical Music


 New Wave

 Nineties Music


 Punk Rock Music

 Show Tunes





 Hip Hop Music


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Journal Entries:
3/27/2018 12:15:17 PM
Thirsty Thursday this week, March 29 at the Brickhouse in Nyack

3/6/2018 4:04:21 AM
The next Westchester Munch will be March 15 at the NY Firehouse Grill, 63 Welcher Ave, Peekskill NY , from 7:30 to 9:30 PM.

1/2/2018 9:38:00 AM
The next SWACK munch will be January 4 an the Mons Olympus Diner in Yonkers:

12/2/2017 3:13:50 PM
I'm going to start posting Westchester events here, maybe start getting some other people out and meeting!

The next Westchester munch will be on December 21, at the Firehouse Grill in Peekskill. If you would like to come, please see the event page on Fetlife and RSVP so we have an accurate head count:   or PM me here.

The next SWACK munch will be December 7 an the Mons Olympus Diner in Yonkers:

The next Poly Cocktails will be Monday, Nov 11 at Whiskey Creek in White Plains:

Finally, Thirsty Thursday meets the last Thursday of every month at the Brickhouse in Nyack:

2/11/2015 10:32:38 AM
You have to wonder how stupid a scammer has to be to keep using the same porn star's picture when there are multiple sites with the picture saying "WARNING - USED BY SCAMMERS!"

8/23/2013 11:49:16 AM

In the past week I've been talking to another person who remembers the a.s.b days. I've also been fielding some questions from newcomers, and the combination reminded me of the FAQ, literally lists of the most Frequently Asked Questions a newsgroup would get from newcomers. Someone had compiled a FAQ for, and it was a great introduction for new people, who knew they wanted to try something but weren't sure what or how. This FAQ was last updated in 1995, and the name has changed, but most of the information still holds today.


For anyone new, this would be a great place to start:

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