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About AdHominem
I feel a lot of people on here dismiss others way too quickly before even talking to them. Literally, there is not a lick of conversation! This isn't a resume. I can't put my experience and education down in a list format with references and expect a sane reply. Maybe a job offer, but not someone seeking a relationship/lifestyle in BDSM.
Now, about me...
Let's start with a normal day. It's one big routine, really. I like routine. I need routine. I hope you like routine as well. I wake up early, I get ready for work, I go to work. I come home, I work out, I eat like a horse. I consider it a successful day if I did some dishes and folded some laundry in-between on a Monday through Friday. My standards must seem like their sky-high, I know. Calm yourself. I save working on the house and the larger projects for the weekend.
I work in IT. I have a beard, high cheek bones, and some seriously blue eyes. If you want a face picture, let me know, but we'll have to have talked for a little bit before I just start sending them out. I look very mean. Like, really mean. I think it's off putting to a lot of people at first.
I don't have an artistic bone in my body. I think that's why I like to workout; It allows a physical expression of emotion. I'm fairly new to weightlifting, been doing it seriously for about a year. I won't be doing any strongmans, nor will I be flexing in a giant diaper in front of a crowd. Weight lifting and working out is not something I do as an end means. It's a process, "a journey" if I want to sound cliche. I work to be the strongest version of myself: Physically, intellectually, charismatically. Everything.
I strive to not only build a better person in myself, but in others. My friends, my coworkers, my family, my loved ones. I don't like the term molding. It's too selfish sounding. I like to help people shape themselves, define their own lives, providing as much or as little assistance on my part as needed. As far as a BDSM lifestyle goes, I seek more. I want to mold. I want to define every inch of your being. I want you to be stronger, smarter and happier. But I want it done with my own image in mind. |
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