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8/23/2014 11:02:28 AM

Use this checklist to either gauge your own interests or sit down and go over it with your partner and discuss each topic together. This is also a great way to talk about your fetishes, laugh a little and a learn a lot about your partner! The BDSM Checklist is an excellent “ice breaker” for introducing BDSM into your relationship.

For each activity, there are three answers.

The first answer should be, if you’ve ever tried that activity before

Yes = I have participated in this activity before
No = I have not participated in this activity before

The second answer should be your interest in engaging in that activity on a scale of 0 – 5.

0 = I have no interest/don’t like this.
1 = Not very interesting/don’t really enjoy this too much.
2 = This is alright.
3 = This is nice/fun/interesting
4 = I really enjoy/think I’ll enjoy this activity
5 = I LOVE THIS/CAN’T WAIT TO TRY THIS

The third Answer would be to write any explanations or more information after your answers. Remember, the more information you have the safer/hotter/more fun things will be.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5 - I especially love to be flogged on my back!!!

Tickling: Yes/5 - My feet are my most ticklish place but I didn’t tell you that!

SEX:

Anal Sex: 5/yes

Armpit Sex: 1/no

Ass Cheek Sex: 1/no

Butt Plugs: 5/yes

Dildo – Anal: 5/yes

Dildo – Oral: 5/yes

Finger Sex: 5/yes

Genital Intercourse: 5/yes

Hand Job: 4/yes

Including others: 4/yes

Licking: 5/yes

Massage: 5/yes

Oral Sex:5/yes

Phone Sex:2/yes

Sex in Public:4/yes

Sex Outdoors:5/yes

Swinging:5/yes

Teasing:4/yes

Vibrators: 5/yes

BONDAGE:

Blindfolds: 4/yes

Body Bags:0/no

Bondage – full body: 5/yes

Bondage – Intricate Rope:5yes

Bondage – Mental:3/yes

Bondage – Outdoors:5/yes

Bondage – Private:5/yes

Bondage – Public:5/yes

Boxing / Closeting:0/yes have a heard limit to that phobea

Caging:5/yes

Cock Bondage:

Crucifixion:0/no

Cuffs Leather:5/yes

Cuffs Metal:0/yes have allergy to metals

Duct Tape:5/yes

Full Head Hoods:0/yes

Gags – ball type:5/yes

Gags – bits:5/yes

Gags – cloth:5/yes

Gags – inflatable:5/no

Gags – phallic:5/yes

Gags – tap:5/yes

Gas Masks:0/yes phobia

Gates of Hell:

Harnessing – leather:4/yes

Harnessing – rope:5/yes

Headphone/Earplugs:4/yes

Masks:0/yes

Mummification:0/no

Padlocks:4/yes

Plastic Wrap:1/no

Restraint Duration: 1-3hrs:4/no

Restraint Duration: 3+ hrs:4/no

Restraint Duration: multiple days:3/no

Restraint Duration: overnight/full day:3/no

Restraint in public – under clothes:5/yes

Restraints – Ankle:5/yes

Restraints – Arm leg sleeves:5/no

Restraints – Hand Cuffs:5/yes

Restraints – Leather:5/yes

Restraints – Metal:0/yes

Restraints – Rope:5/yes

Restraints – Thumb Cuffs:5/yes

Restraints – Wrist:5/yes

Restraints – Wrist to ankle/neck/waist:5/yes

Silk Scarves:5/yes

Sleepsacks:0/no

Slings/Swings:4/no

Spreader bars:5/yes

Stethescope:4/no

Stocks:4/yes

St. Andrews Cross:4/no

Straight Jackets:5/no

Suspension:0/no

Suspension – Horizontal:0/no

Suspension – Inverted: 0no

S&M:

Abrasion:5/yes

Anal Dilation:5/no

Anal Fisting:5/yes

Asphyxiation:5/yes

Bastinado:4/no

Beating – hard:5/yes

Beating – soft:5/yes

Belt/Strap:5/yes

Biting:4/yes

Caning:5/yes

Choking:5/yes

Clothespins:5/yes

Cock and Ball Torture:

Cupping/Suction:5/yes

Cutting:5/yes

Electricity – Tens Unit:5/yes

Electricity – Violet Wand:5/yes

Face Slapping:4/yes

Fireplay:4/yes

Flogging:5/yes

Hair pulling:5/yes

Hairbrushes:5/yes

Hot Oils:4/yes

Ice Cubes:5/yes

Injections:0/no

Nipple Clamps:4/yes

Nipple Torture:4/yes

Nipple Weights:4/yes

Paddling:4/yes

Piercing – temp:5/yes

Pinching:4/yes

Punching:3/yes

Riding Crops:5/yes

Scratching:5/yes

Spanking – on all fours:5/yes

Spanking – over knee:5/yes

Spanking hard:5/yes

Spanking soft:5/yes

Strapping – Full Body:5/yes

Urethral Sounds:5/no

Whipping – buggywhip:5/yes

Whipping – bullwhip:5/yes

Whipping – Cat:5/yes

Whipping – genitals:5/yes

Whipping – knottetwips:5/yes

Whipping – Quirt:5/yes

Whipping – Signal Whip:5/yes

Whipping – switch:5/yes

Whipping – Taws:5/yes

FETISH:

Abandonment:0/yes

Acrophilia:3/no

Acrotomophilia:3/no

Agalmatophilia:3/no

Barosmia:3/no

Being Recorded:4/yes

Bestiality:1/no

Body Worship:5/yes

Boot Worship:3/no

Branding:5/no

Brown Showers:0/no hard limit

Castration Fantasy:

Catheterization:4/no

Chamber Pots (use):no

Cock Rings:no

Corsets:yes/5

Cross-Dressing:no/0

Cross-Dressing:0 no

Diapers:0/no

Dirty Sex:5/yes

Douching:4/yes

Enemas:4/yes

Erotic Dancing:4/yes

Exhibitionism:5/yes

Fear:5/yes

Feathers/Fur:4/yes

Foot Worship:1/yes limit soft

Golden Showers:5/yes

Gun Play:3/no

High Heel Worship:2/no

Humiliation:4/yes

Infantilism:4/no

Latex:0/n0

Latex:0/no

Leather:5/yes

Lingerie:5/yes

Medical Instruments:5/yes

Needles:5 yes

Oral/Anal Play:5/yes

Pain:5/yes

Piercing (Permanent):5/yes

Posing for Erotic Photos:5/yes

Prostitution (real):4/yes

Public Exposure:4

PVC:1/no

Recording Scenes:5/yes

Rituals:

Shaving:5/yes

Skinny-Dipping:3/yes

Sensory Deprivation4/yes

Spandex:4/yes

Speculums (anal):5/no

Spitting:5/yes

Supplying victims:0/no

Swallowing Semen:5/yes

Taking Erotic Photos:5/yes

Tasting Yourself:5/yes

Tattoo:5/yes

Tattoos:5/yes

Tickling:5/yes

Uniforms:4/no

Voyeurism:4/no

Wearing Fluids:5yes

Wrestling:4/no

POWER PLAY:

Bathroom use control:5/yes

Begging:5/yes

Behavior Restrictive Rules:5/yes

Butt Plugs – public:5/yes

Chastity Belts:5/no

Clothing choice:5/yes

Cock Worship:5/yes

Collar and Leash:5/yes

Collars:5/yes a must for me

Competition:0/no

Crawling:5/yes

Eye Contact Restriction:4/no

Following Orders:5/yes

Food Choice/Directed Eating:5/yes

Forced Dressing:5/yes

Forced Exercise:3/yes

Forced Homosexuality:1/no

Forced Masturbation:5/yes

Forced Nudity:5/yes

Forced Servitude:5/yes

Given Away:0/no

Hot or Sensual Waxing:4/yes

Housework:3/yes

Humiliation – Private:5/yes

Humiliation – Public:3/yes

Humiliation – Verbal:4/yes

Kneeling:5/yes

Lecturing:4/yes

Manicures:5/yes

Name Change:5/yes

Orgasm Control:5/yes

Orgasm Denial:4/yes

Personality Modification:5/no

Pussy Worship:0/n0

Serving Orally:5/yes

Sexual Deprivation:3/no

Sleep Deprivation:3/no

Speech Restrictions:5/yes

Standing in Corner:4/yes

Struggling:5/yes

Symbolic Jewelry:5/yes

Weight Gain/Loss: 5/yes

ROLE PLAY:

Chauffeuring:0/no

Fantasy Gang Rape:5/yes

Fantasy Rape:5/yes

Initiation Rites:5/no

Interrogations:5/no

Kidnapping:5/no

Medical Scenes:5/yes

Other Animal Play:0/no

Physical Examinations:5/yes

Pony Play:4/no

Prison Scenes:4/no

Prostitution (pretend):5/yes

Punishment Scene:5/yes

Puppy Play:4/no

Religious Scenes:0/no

Schoolroom Scenes:4/yes

Serving as Art:4/no

Serving as Ashtray:1/yes

Serving as Furniture:3/yes