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Male Dominant, 31, Burbank, California
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About ActaNonVerba
I am looking for a strictly platonic disciplinary relationship.
Here's the deal: I am a perfectly competent and somewhat ridiculously productive person, but I do know that I function better with some sort of external structure that includes consistent consequences. I have also found that physical punishment helps me get over being upset about things that I could have done better, which otherwise tend to haunt me ad nauseum.
I am looking for someone who might have an interest in providing this structure and discipline. As stated above, this arrangement would be COMPLETELY NON-SEXUAL. If you are not interested in this from a purely platonic, disciplinarian standpoint, please don't respond - you'll end up frustrated and I'll end up angry, which will benefit no one. I am in a very happy, committed, monogamous relationship and I don't intend for that to change. My boyfriend DOES know I'm looking into this, and he may in fact want to meet you at some point; another friend of mine, who would be my safety contact, definitely will - if that freaks you out, then this is not the arrangement for you.
Gender is not important; consistency is. If you think this is something you might be interested in, please have the courtesy to respond with the following:
1. Your real first name and your age;
2. What experience you've had with D/s, disciplinary relationships and/or administering corporal punishment;
3. How you might imagine this working logistically; and
4. Whatever questions you might have for me.
Thanks for your time, and I hope you find what you're looking for.
Edited to add: good grief, people. Please remember that this is a fairly intimidating process for me and is one I still have some reservations about. If you're going to send a message and then demand to know why I didn't respond the moment I read it, please save your words; I don't need to get yelled at for wanting to have a small amount of time to process things and maybe check in with a trusted friend of mine. If anything other than an instantaneous response will be considered rude, this whole "trying to meet people online" thing is just not going to work for me.
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