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Hetero Female Slave, 30,  Austin, Texas
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I am looking for A Dominant, straight male, between 40-49 years old, who lives in the Austin, Texas area. I am not looking for a long distance relationship.

I am a HEAVY masochist who loves a variety of different types of impact play. I am a rope bunny who loves to be suspended upside down. I am a little who loves to color, watch Disney movies, and cuddle. I am a slave who loves to serve. It is impossible to understand a person if you only take a person at face value. I am a slave. I am a strong woman, who finds peace in submission. I live a 247 lifestyle.

I have been in long-term Ds relationships. That is what I want now. I am currently looking for a long-term Ms relationship. Some may call me poly, some may call me play poly. I love a range of types of play and have a different type of relationship with each person I play with. I am looking for a primary relationship.

In the vanilla world, you will find me at the creek playing with my dog, in the coffee shop reading a book, at the Renaissance festival, or exploring the city. I enjoy wine tastings and wandering around new places and finding hidden treasures, be that a small shop or a secret swimming hole. I also love an excuse to put on a cute dress and leave the house. You will also find me camping more than ten weekends a year. I love the outdoors. I go to Renaissance festivals, burn events, and a few other festivals every year. I have an MBA, run groups, and own my own business. I am looking for someone who is educated, outgoing, and ambitious.

I am not looking for one night stands, or flings. I want to find love as much as I do adventure. Someone who captures my mind, heart, and body. Someone who can make me feel owned, desired, and protected. I want to be able to give myself entirely to the right man.

A submissive is not weak, but strong. Submission takes strength, the reward is something nearly inexplicable. Peace of mind and quiet surrender create a fire and strengthens the mind and heart.

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 acrosub

 Female Slave

 Austin 

 Texas

 5' 6"

 118 lbs

 30

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 03/06/15

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops

 Renaissance Faires

 Volunteerism

 Camping

 Dancing

 Bondage (Expert)

 Collars

 Exhibitionism

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service (Expert)

 Fire Play (Expert)

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Mental Bondage

 Munches

 Obedience Training

 Clothing Selection

 Public Play

 Shibari (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Loves:

 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera

 Movies

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Pilates

 Yoga

 Anal Play

 Blindfolds

 Canes and Crops

 Corsetry

 Being Massaged

 Hoods

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Play

 Vibrators

 Wax Play (Expert)

 Board Games

 Cartoons

 Cooking

 Knitting

 Sewing

 Intellectual Discourse

 Country Music

 Christianity

 Likes:

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Shopping

 Aerobics

 Gymnastics

 Hiking

 Horseback Riding

 Rafting

 Walking

 Begging

 Body Worship

 Electrical Play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Role Playing

 Whips

 Arcade Games

 Card Games

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 True Crime

 Meditation

 Photography

 Economics

 History

 Physics

 Psychology

 Polyamory

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Jazz

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Catholicism

 Reiki

 Football

 Swimming

 Volleyball

 Tolerates:

 Antique Shows

 Modern Primitivism

 Cybering

 Blue Grass

 Curious About:

 Hunting

 Scuba Diving

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Leashes

 Speech Restrictions

 Karaoke

 Biology

 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Darts

 Dislikes:

 Bar Hopping

 Breast Play

 Medical fetish play

 Tickling

 Hip Hop Music

 Hates:

 Corner Time

 Genital Punishment

 Rituals

 Horror Movies

 Electronica / EDM

 Rap

 Hard Limits:

 Diapers

 Gags

 Gas Masks

 Humiliation

 Sensation Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Watersports

 Keto

 Swinging

 Vampirism

 Working Out

 Heavy Metal Music

 Atheism

 Latter-day Saints

 Scientology

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Journal Entries:
5/27/2015 9:39:14 PM

A question men keep asking me lately is “Why are you on a dating site?” I am not sure what the intention of the question is, I suppose it differs between the different men who ask it. They then follow the question with a statement along the lines of “You are too young and pretty to be single, any man would want you.” For some it is a pickup line and others just blunt and curious. 

This seems to be a difficult question. Do they expect me to argue their statement or come back with some other lame excuse? It brings back reminders of body shaming in the past. It also is a positive reminder to myself that I will not settle. I am not on dating sites for one night stands or short term flings. I am on there because the man who meets my needs is not at TNG South munches or in my acro yoga or Thai massage groups. I don't go to play parties or bars to pick up men. I do not drive, so it is not easy to jump in the car and go to a concert or the coffee shop. I am looking for someone who is a man, not a boy. A man who has more in common than just kinky sex. A strong man who shares interests and values, and has the patience to walk next to me. Someone who will just as willing and happy to throw me in the air, lead me around the dance floor, and wield a flogger or use a cane, as he is to go to church on Sunday. A man who will teach me his hobbies as well as learn mine. A man who will accept and desire my submission as a sign of trust and strength.

So yes, I am on dating sites, I have no interest in one night stands and the club scene. I am on those sites to expand my horizons and look outside my small group of friends. And those comments and questions I receive are not flattering and will not get men anywhere. It is a pickup line that does not work.


5/5/2015 4:49:02 AM

Sometimes I sit back and reflect. I have two journals. One for each headspace. As a little I see things at face value. As a submissive I see things in a more complex light.
My little’s space is a place for ME. A three year old child knows the words “mine” and “no”, so do I, very well. That is the place I go. I will share, but I do not share some things. If you are MY daddy and I am YOUR little girl, I will not share you with other women. I need some of your time to be cared for and cherished. I need you to teach me new things and help me grow. In return you get my adoration and affection. I will draw you pictures and be loyal to you. I will open my heart, you will see my fears and my past. It is the most vulnerable place I can be. I am vulnerable, I am on the right side of the slash, but I am not submitting.

If I see you cry I will know you are sad. I will not read into it. I am in my little’s headspace and take it at face value. I will try to make it all better by giving you my teddy to hold and wrapping you in a hug. If you need to talk, let me come out of my headspace.

As a submissive, I will give you my heart and my body. I will let you hold my mind and my soul in your hands. I will give you everything, except who I am. You cannot break me. I will serve you and care for you. I ask for your protection, love, guidance, affection, and loyalty in return. This seems like a lot. I am giving you myself, I need you in return. I need to take control. I want to see your vulnerability as you see mine. When you cry I will ask for guidance on how to help, tell me. I will do everything in my power to help you, even if that is to just sit at your feet and let you cry.

Ultimately I need a man who I can be both for. These are two sides of the same coin. I am multifaceted. I cope better with some parts of my life through service, and others I find the strength to face from the gentle hand of a Daddy Dom.
I am strong, I am not a doormat. I want to be trained in anticipatory service by a Dom who has the time and devotion to do so. It takes a great deal of time, effort, creativity, and devotion from both people to make a dynamic work. Not halfhearted moments here and there every few days. I require someone strong enough to understand and meet the needs of my little as well as letting me meet his needs as a submissive.

Most of you who will read this know I identify as a bottom during pickup play scenes at play parties, but within a dynamic and in my own journey of personal development, I identify more as a slave than a submissive in terms of service. Anticipatory service versus purely being told what to do. Living to serve the Dom’s needs, in contrast to catering solely to his demands. To every person this definition is different. To me it is the perfect balance between being a little and serving. Living the lifestyle within a dynamic or out of one. I live my life based on a 24/7 lifestyle between both of my headspaces. That is another story for another day though. I do not post some of these things on the front page of my profile, if people desire get to know me well enough I will either tell them in person or they will take the time to read my writings.


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