I’ve been on CM in the past and to be honest, I’m skeptical of finding the relationship that I’m searching for. It seems that finding that balance between D/s and vanilla is an elusive goal but I am willing to try again.
To start with the basics, I'm a 45 year old professionally employed man. By almost any measure, I am relatively successful, grounded, stable and sane. I am 6', 190#, fit, attractive, healthy, intelligent, kind and socially adept. Bottom line is that I believe I'm the kind of man that you'd be proud and able to introduce into any social situation and that I bring a lot to a relationship both within a D/s and vanilla context.
Behind closed doors or in my private life, I am very attracted to strong, dominant women and am searching for a long-term and committed female-led relationship. After years of self-examination I'm not even sure why I feel the need to be subservient but I do know that it is an innate need. I also know that when I focus my energies and attention on my partner’s needs the priority that I am a better partner and person. It calms me and provides balance in my life.
In terms of D/s, I am motivated by the power exchange and control and do not have a specific list of "must-have" fetishes and/or "do-me" activities. I enjoy the daily rituals and subtle exchanges that let us both know our role within the relationship. I am open to exploring with you activities that you enjoy or activities that you believe support the goal of total power exchange in our private life.
If you are a searching for a committed female-led relationship and believe we may have a connection, I would love to hear from you.
