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we are looking for a woman that would enjoy a poly relationship. We saw your profile and wanted to chat with you.We are not looking to limit or restrict what this relationship could be, but are looking to define where we are right now, attract the right person, and move forward/ re-define together. We are a committed, secure couple looking for a woman to join our relationship long-term. We enjoy a range of activities from movies, hiking (I have a goal to hike up to 12,000’ this summer), taking the dogs to the river, going to clubs, eating out, eating in, game night, playing pool at the local pub, BBQ’s, etc. We cannot predict the future, so here’s where we stand in the present moment. We need someone we can TRUST. This means 1) complete honesty, yes complete honesty, not 88% is good enough 2) zero drama or game-playing. If your life seems to be one problem after another, then please get back to us when you’ve sorted out your issues. We are not perfect but we have worked hard to develop open, honest communication and despise passive-aggressive, immature games. (Now bedroom games….that’s another matter ?) We are busy people, so while in the bedroom you will be the center of attention, in regular life we will of course call, text, etc and you will be a factor in us making plans, but you are not our “princess”…we have 3 dogs, sorry – that job is already taken ? This means you also have a life; i.e. a job (your own money), a functional car and your own friends and hobbies. We will take you out to the movies, buy you drinks when we’re out, get you a gift on your birthday, etc but we are not going to budget your expenses into our day-to-day household income. So if you’re looking for a “sugar couple” please move on. We also want someone reliable…if you have a habit of making plans but “finding something better to do” and flaking at the last minute, please don’t waste our time. Now, personality – we like a little swagger but please don’t give us attitude. If you think of yourself as “bitchy” or “bossy” this really won’t work! We are grown-folk and are not looking for a spoiled brat. Again, we have 3 dogs, that job is taken. You can be a little shy but you definitely need a freaky/ kinky side as we will ravish you (and each other) in the bedroom. Our male half tends to be naturally Dominant, so let us know if that’s a side you’d like to explore as well. We have a very active/ adventurous sex life together and are looking to improve/ expend that with you. We have few limits sexually so bring on your fantasies! We are looking ultimately for a woman who knows the meaning of, and identifies as queer, but if you are “very bi” that will work as well. We both need to be attracted to you, and you need to be attracted to us BOTH. At the end of the day, you are dating/ in a relationship with a COUPLE. If you are looking for that “special one” then clearly we are not for you. We are looking for a relationship, which means that there is a range of things that can happen on any given day - we might just eat dinner and watch a movie together and you go home with just a kiss from us one night, or we can spend a whole Sunday in bed sweaty with sex toys everywhere, ordering pizza because no-one wants to stop to cook…depending on how we’re feeling and what’s going on in our lives. We are looking for that special woman who is secure in herself and wants to have her needs met, and meet our needs in a sharing, caring relationship that we create in harmony. Oh, and being super cute doesn’t hurt :P We have a broad range of what we find “attractive”, but again you need to like us both, as we are a package deal. To clarify, this means you are just as turned on by men as women, and are comfortable, or open to becoming comfortable in bed with both at the same time. We are not expecting “perfection” but looking to enhance 3 people’s lives with something that really works for everyone.
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