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abytchgoddess4u - Female Dominant, Vancouver, BC | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About abytchgoddess4u

Before responding to my profile, please do me the favour of reading this post:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1098733/mpage_1/tm.htm

Do not assume you are 'perfect' for me simply because we have a shared interest or happen to live in the same city. I am very particular with whom I play, and will not consider non-local or those that are out of what I feel is an appropriate age range.

That being said; my interests have a very broad range. Everything from Ultimate to umbilical cords, Siddhartha to South Park, tattoos to toerings, piercings to politics, etc. I have many friendships that fulfill my needs...but, as yet, no one person that can compliment me on the whole.

I'm assertive, open-minded, kind, caring, supportive, easy to talk to, and would never say anything behind your back that I wouldn't say to your face. My glass is both half full and half empty, I'm a realist. I believe in the connectedness of all things, karma, and free choice.

I'm searching for that special someone with a twist. I want a partner with all the standard good qualities, ie- intelligent, street smart, strong, social, stable, honest, emotionally available, and open-minded...as well as an interest in something other than vanilla sex.

I'm a Dominant looking for a nice, normal submissive/slave. My main focus is the D/s dynamic. I also enjoy bondage, chastity(yours), caning, flogging, genital torture, etc. I am very open to extreme play and am quite sadistic.

I'm definitely not interested in having a discreet relationship. Trust me...DO NOT reply if you're involved with anyone else. What I am interested in is finding that perfect guy to grow old with, in a house with a white picket fence, a cat, some kids, and a dungeon in the basement.

Are you someone who will go to extremes but is not an extremist? Have you ever had a sense of self-dichotomy, but not schizophrenia? Can you be goofy as well as discuss politics and society's ills? Do you take care of yourself, but aren't truly vain?

All things need balance.

I'm not particularly fussy about how you should look...though I do know what I like. I'm not shallow, but there has to be a spark...;) In addition, you must have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at yourself and me.

If you are going to take time to respond, please do so respectfully, as well as telling me who your favorite author is and the last book you read. Also; please include a face photo, or point me to one in your profile...it's more important to me than other body parts.

This may sound like I'm asking a lot, but I am worth it, as are you. Both you and I deserve nothing less...:)

Another big move...I have now finally returned to Vancouver! I can't wait to get settled in and explore the local D/s community again. I'm sure a lot has changed in 6yrs...I know I have!:)

After two more moves and much traveling this past year, I will be settling in the KW area until next July.

I look forward to exploring the local community, since I've heard good things about it...:)

Feel free to contact me if you are in KW and can offer any assistance in my settling into the area.

Just an update to say I am traveling again for 5wks, then will be moving away from the Toronto area...:)
I'm back...finally, and happily so.

I'm taking my time to weed through the many responses I received while away.

If I do not answer you, please be assured it has something to do with the fact that you've either ignored my profile, cannot spell/punctuate/capitalise/use correct grammar/etc., are old enough to be my father or young enough to be my child, don't fit my usage specifications, or I simply think you're probably an asshole.

In general, I do reply to those who make an effort...even if you are not appropriate for me.
I will be leaving tonight for a three month trip. I don't know if I will have net access at all, let alone regulary.

Please bear with me if I do not respond to you during that time period.
ATTENTION: UPDATE!

Many people have asked if I live in Toronto, Texas, or L.A.; I have moved to Toronto(as of June of '06), which is why my profile is posted here! I have a fine attention to detail and would not make such a grave mistake with my own profile.

Secondly, I am NOT looking for a long term relationship at this time. However, my ad does reflect the qualities I look for in a sub, whether short or long term. If they do not resonate with you, please don't bother. I have high standards and deserve the best. If you fail to impress me with your personality, or your ability to spell and use correct grammar, we will not be suited for one another.

Thirdly, I am sick and tired of reading bullshit responses. If you do not answer the questions in my profile, I will no longer respond. I have been very patient with those of you that have not done so. No more. Now you will simply be deleted.

Included in those bullshit responses are:

The "do me" subs who send a laundry list of fetishes that I really couldn't give two shits about. I'm sick of you, fuck off. I don't have any particular fetishes and will not cater to yours.

Those of you that are married/attached; same goes to you, fuck off. You're scumbags and I hope your wives find out. Give me your personal info, so I can tell them myself.

Those of you that wish to treat me as a means to an end, a commodity, or a dirty little secret, don't let the door hit your ass...fuck you too. No, I don't want to meet your family. But, I also won't be disrespected or treated like that drunk chick at the bar.

To the Doms...I don't play with other Tops, I couldn't care less if you "want to explore your sub side", blahfuckingblah...shut the fuck up.

To the women who respond; I'm sorry, I don't play with women. I don't believe in desecrating that which should be honoured. Best of luck to you in your search...:)

In conclusion; I am still looking for the one or ones that I can stomach being around for any length of time. If you are not a useless waste of space and this update has not completely scared the crap out of you...please don't hesitate to respond, I am actually pretty fucking fabulous.
Finally, I know I'll be in LA from May 8-14th. Not a lot of time for a city I love so much; but just enough to check out a couple of parties, I'm sure. :) Does anyone have any suggestions on where to go?

I've changed my State location to make myself easier for all you LA subs to view my profile...but I still live in Texas, unfortunately.
Currently planning a trip to L.A. in May...just thought some out there might be interested...:)
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