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Who I am
Circumstances in my life have consumed most of my time and attention till now. I've neglected this side of myself for too long. It's been slumbering away, like a beast in hibernation, but it will always awaken with the coming of spring. I've been tethered to so many obligations. But it's time I say, my day has come around. And with that, is another wound that needs treated, and absence to be filled.
What I want
I'm looking for a submissive....but not just any. I want -my- submissive. I don't care about fulfilling anyone else's definition of the word. These are my wants and desires, and being "good enough" begins and ends with me. The word itself, "submissive", gets tossed around much too casually these days. Used by any pretender with a high sex drive and a bossy attitude, who thinks mistreating women in the bedroom makes him genuine. For me, sexual fulfillment is the smallest tip of the iceberg. For my needs, I desire something beyond the physical. It's about more than just lustful attraction, or physical gratification. I desire.....obedience. Trust. Complete sacrifice of your emotions and your feelings into my care. I crave your thoughts, your mind, every piece of yourself that makes you, "you". I want to devour your appetites and gorge on your ideas. I want to consume you mind and body and soul, and lead you into a renaissance of satisfaction. I don't just want absolute trust. I want you, absolutely.
What I offer
I'm offering pleasure, conversation, wit-filled banter, philosophical discussion, self-discovery. I'll help your fantasies come to life, and challenge you in a way that your only enemy will be yourself, at striving to live up to those expectations. I want that infinite spark that can only be lit between two people who connect from that first word and that first "hello", where the ember grows into a roaring bonfire. I'm ready to find a woman who can be all these things. I'm well educated and have a broad aptitude across many different fields. I want a lady who can match that and hold my interest. Attraction begins and it ends not with your body, but with your mind. A capable mind is more erotic and more intoxicating than the loveliest figure, the most sensual curves. More than the most carnal delights as can be imagined. I'm not interested in your cup or your band size, or whether a bathing suit is right for you. I'm interested in you. What you think, what you believe, everything you feel. If you have that magic and that charm, then you don't just look beautiful. You ARE beautiful. And that's not an opinion.....it's just, how it is.
What I expect
Please....be serious when considering this. If you don't think you can measure up, then don't waste either my time or yours. Neither of us should have to settle for something where we're only half satisfied. You deserve better than that, as do I. As I've said, your outward appearance is secondary to your carriage and how you present yourself. More than that, this isn't some trivial dalliance. This is me, and this is what I expect. You'll be thoughtful, intelligent, kind, compassionate, you can reason, you can articulate yourself well, you can keep up with me. That's key....if you can't keep pace with me, then you're not what I want. I don't expect these standards to be reasonable or even fair. But they're mine. And it wouldn't be fair to either of us for me to accept otherwise. My prior experience with dominating is limited, because few women have measured up well enough to earn that privilege. But, as I said.....I don't intend to stack myself against any other dom. This is my world, and my law. And if you want to live in it then you'll follow my rules.
With that said, reach out to me if you think you're a good fit. My experience with professional doming is minimal so I don't ask for someone who's regimented out her whole submissive personality. Don't kneel to me because it's what I want, or because it inspires some limited, fleeting pleasure. Kneel to me because it feels right....and because for us, it is, and will be right.
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