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AbeLi

Dominant Couple, 28
Male Dominant, 54, Wheaton, Illinois
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About AbeLi

Long story short, looking for a submissive female partner. Ideally, is able to travel, open to serving, exercise (would appreciate a workout partner, losing weight) and enjoys the simple things in life.

I believe in the traditional mindset of gender roles. A man being the Dominant figure in the household, while the woman plays a more supportive role. The woman still has her own mind and her will, but she chooses to submit and support the her husband and provide her opinion when valued and necessary. She is also the Males source of relief and comfort. The Male be that mindset is responsible to make sure that the woman is protected, and treasured.

Adding my sexual drive into this mix, being a sadistic top, with a desire for control and degrading, I am looking for a woman to be my slave, a cross between a sexual servant and sexual property. Now her having no shame or dignity is no fun, so a mindless zombie slave is nothing what I want. I want her to have her own opinions and thoughts, and adore the idea of serving and worshiping, even at the cost of her own image and body. To me, a woman is at her most attractive when you can hear her embarrassed feelings mixing with her sexual arousal and fear.

Just be clear though, I work and play only with consenting and willing partners. Meaning we agree to all the terms and uses prior to play. If it has been labeled as a hard limit, it shall never be touched.

I adore a beautiful figure, slender, but well shaped. Modifications are things I have considered in the past, so things like piercings and tattoos would be lovely.

Limitations for me involve the following
Permanent Damage or Harm
Taking or ending a humans life
The use of animals or children for sexual purposes
Infections

Favorites include the following
Public play
Exhibitionism
Sadomasochism
Fear Play
Breathe Play
objectification

If these are things that you agree upon, let us talk more.
Someone with set boundaries but is not afraid to try new things.

Do not get me wrong, I love trying new things, but you will never see me near anything related to beastiality, killing, anything related with death, drugs, or messing with children. People say they have no limits, but the reality is that they do have certain limits that will never be crossed. If you understand that, great, lets talk.
A mentor or partner to converse with about BDSM ideology

Life is a learning experience, every day is a new day to learn and experience. If you do not believe that and consider yourself an expert or master in a specific topic, you are dead wrong. No one is a master of anything, only more experience than others. That means, If you have experiences with BDSM, from both a dom or sub position, lets talk.
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