ABOUT US:
First and foremost, we are a loving male-female couple that have discussed a polyamorous relationship and mutually agree that it is something that we both desire. That being said, we are steadfast in our desire for a female partner (only) to join the relationship. To each their own, but we do not desire any more males to be involved in our relationship. We are "brand spankin' new" to this and are just now beginning to explore our options and actively seek a partner. We have been together for approximately five years and are very grounded, secure, and loving. Without complete trust and security in one another, the addition of a second female wouldn't be possible. We believe that we have reached that stage in our relationship. We have been married for two years and recently had our first child. We are seeking a secondary “wife.”
Socially, we probably aren't your typical polyamorous couple. We are politically conservative and practicing Christians. Additionally, we practice "Loving Domestic Discipline" (LDD) in our relationship. Many may look at it as a form of "D/s," but it isn't just sexual in nature. For the most part, we strive to maintain a "traditional" household. For him, the D/s aspects of our relationship are more sexual than for her. Nonetheless, she does derive a certain amount of pleasure from the D/s kink. It is a rather happy medium, as a balance between discipline, respect, and sexual release exists. Most importantly, LDD is our way of life.
Wow, after reading that, it sounds as if we are freaks, but nothing could be further from the truth. In all honesty, we are a "typical" family and from all appearances, we are seemingly quite "normal." We are both drug and disease free. We enjoy watching television, reading, attending / watching sporting events, going to the beach, and all sorts of other forms of activities and entertainment. We have two dogs and dedicate a lot of time to them. We consider ourselves to be intelligent, cultured, and well-rounded. We are both active, take care of ourselves, and are considered physically attractive. We will gladly exchange photographs, but we are not willing to post pictures for the general public.
HIS OVERVIEW:
· Dominate personality—loyal to a fault—set in his ways
· Age = mid 30s
· 5'10"; 160lbs—short dark hair and brown eyes—thin, athletic build
· No tattoos or piercings
· 2 Undergraduate degrees, Master's degree, & hours toward PhD (desires to finish)
· Professionally employed (middle management)
· Drinks more than just socially, but nothing abnormal or potentially damaging
· Trying to quit smoking
· Sports fanatic (watching and participating)
· Loves playing with his dogs
· Enjoys good beer, fine wine, & rare cigars
· Very sexual
HER OVERVIEW:
· Submissive personality—introverted at first—"girly-girl" who can have fun with the guys
· Age = late 20s
· 5'4"; 115lbs.—long dark hair and brown eyes—34D/26/35
· No tattoos – Pierced nipples
· 2 Undergraduate degrees, 2 Master's degrees, & even more hours toward PhD (won't finish)
· Professionally employed, but work from home most days
· Only drinks socially and never smokes
· Actually enjoys being a "housewife" & taking care of the family—loves being a wife & mother
· Loves to be active and work out
· Not very sexual, but the libido is picking up a little (this would help immensely)
WHAT WE'RE LOOKING FOR:
We have never posted a personal ad, but one would guess that being too exclusionary isn't a sound strategy. It's doubtful that there are too many individuals in our general society that are willing to be a "second wife," and being too picky will reduce that pool even more. Still, neither of us "settle" in life and we are applying that philosophy in our pursuit of a potential partner. Many things that we are looking for are negotiable, but some simply aren't. Please, we encourage everyone that may be remotely interested to respond, as relationships and mutual attraction cannot be prescribed. Ideally, we want to find another wife, but play partners are also encouraged to reply.
Obviously, we want someone who is child and pet friendly (we have a toddler and two dogs) and this is nonnegotiable. Aside from that, we aren't going to list the countless minutia. Rather, we will touch upon general characteristics that we find appealing. After the initial attraction, relationships develop over time (mutual interests and like-minded individuals can be appealing, but it's also true that sometimes opposites attract).
As far as tangible / quantifiable assets are concerned, we desire a female that is in the age range of 18-40. Physically, we simply want someone who is disease free and is considered "attractive." Obviously, there must be a physical attraction in order for relationships to work, so we want someone who takes care of herself. Intelligence is very important to us.
As far as the sexual realm is concerned, we are very open. Ideally, the female would desire to be with both of us, but a completely heterosexual female is possibly acceptable as well. Of course, we already have an established LDD (D/s) dynamic in our marriage and we would both like this to transition with a potential new partner. Again, this is negotiable, but said female must be respectful and embrace our lifestyle, if not be a fully participating member.
Overall, we must both be attracted (physically, mentally, emotionally, etc.) to a new partner, but certain aspects are more important to each of us. She desires someone who she can relate to and feel very comfortable around—Someone who acts as a sister or close friend. A girl that shares her load and genuinely loves and adores her husband. Sexual satisfaction isn't a priority for her, but is an added bonus. Conversely, sexual satisfaction is vitally important to him. Like most males, he is concerned with the physical and appearance is important. Still, he wants a female that he can connect with emotionally and who is willing to help his wife in her duties.
Obviously, there is quite a bit of information here and a lot to take in. Nevertheless, it is our hope that we find the ideal mate and can move forward. We did a lot of soul searching and didn't hold back when composing this ad, so we invite all genuine and serious replies.
