abandonedpup

Female Switch, 52, highland, Michigan

Male Switch, 27

Female Submissive, 20, Ontario

I think I'm finally ready to start making friends again. I lost myself in my exgirlfriend and it took me a long time to figure out who I am alone, not as a part of her. You know when you're with someone for so long that you're not you anymore, you're "us"? That's where I was at. It's been almost a year and I really think it's time to just move on. Relationships are obviously not my main concern right now, though not out of the question. I'm just tired of living in a lonely hole. I want friends, I want communication. I want a link to the BDSM community that doesn't involve hearing my roommates chain each other to the bed in the next room. We had a big party the other night and my collar got brought of the drawer it's been in to be used in a game. It really hit home. I realized for the first time that she's not coming back. That no matter how much she says she misses me and that she'll change, she just doesn't. I realized the longer I wait around hoping she'll call, the more time I'm losing that I'll never get back. She's not the only person in the world who will accept me. She's not. Even if it seems like it sometimes. There's someone out there who will want to be with me and who will understand why I am the way I am, and why I'm not normal, and they'll be okay with that. And you know what? I bet they'll treat me better then she did too.

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