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I would like to get to know you for a bit online before meeting in person. However, I am not interested in a cyber relationship. If cybersex is what you're after, don't waste my time and I will not waste yours.
I'm an outdoor lover, biking, kayaking, hiking, just about everything. I'm also a bit of a geek. Rarely watch TV but I'm very into movies. I have a strange, sarcastic sense of humor. You'll have to be quick witted to keep up with me. Unless you enjoy being the straight person, I can work with that. I am a scientist by vocation it's a great job providing from my rather out there hobbies.
I read a great deal, fiction, history, fictional history, poetry (not a lot, mostly a macho Nordic poetic Edda type). Most of my furniture is bookshelves and all are full. I like to correct the red lined misspelled words in my posts without resorting to the dictionary. I challenge myself regularly both mentally and physically.
In all appearances I would be the kind of guy you could take home and would appear to be a great catch. Well educated and read, travels often, good conversationalist. But that's a veneer covering something darker.
I am a sexual sadist. I can think of no greater beauty than that of a woman's face expressing the pain I am inflicting on her. Bruising and the marks from my hand, reddened, swollen flesh. That look of fear and desire. "Sex without pain is like food without taste." This quote sums me up. I take pleasure in humiliation and objectification of my submissives as well. Bondage, spanking, discipline, anal sex. These are a few of my favorite things. I have enough money to indulge my love of toys. Looking into buying a sybian - imagine being tied to that with an electrified plug up your ass and me using a violet wand on your stomach, nipples, and back, torturing you with orgasms.
I love the kinky sex, but all the great kinky sex in the world may be wonderful, without the intellectual connection it will only last as long as the lust. I guess I want somebody who's mind I can lust after as much as their body. If all you have on your profile is a picture of your breasts, while I'm really glad you have them and I'm sure they're wonderful, really that's no more attractive to me than a cock shot is to you. I'd rather see a pic of you in sweats playing with your dog - now that's sexy.
I exercise regularly but prefer natural exercise. Would rather go hiking that run a treadmill, do push-ups than lift weights, mountain biking over stationary bike. I am also an excellent cook (was a chef for two years before becoming a scientist - a good chef is also something of a chemist, taking raw ingredients and creating something new and wonderful) who likes to eat healthy and well. I see no reason to sacrifice one for the other.
On the forums often, but usually only in the Humor section. To be honest most of the other sections could use a little more humor.
My Ideal Person: First and foremost a masochist. You need to crave pain, desire it and embrace it. I'm respectful of limits and knowledgeable and experienced enough to train beginners. You need to be willing to be molded into what I desire.
Some of the traits I'm appreciate in a partner are: a person who enjoys life, is active, has a strong sex drive, and is tolerant of (and maybe even shares) my quirks. Having some interesting quirks of your own is a turn on.
"Similarity brings people together, but what makes us different from each other is where love comes from."
-BB King
"You cannot expect a relationship to make you whole, if you're only part of a person by yourself nobody can fix that but you. Relationships do not make us whole, they make us greater than the sum of our individual parts"
-Me
"Sex without pain is like food without taste."
-Marquis de Sade
Now that you have read my whole profile and been thoroughly charmed by my wit, panache, and humility ;-) feel free to contact me with the word, "Memory" as the first word of your email. All other emails without this will be deleted unread as if they were spam. |
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A few profile changes. Couldn't tell you if it's inspiration or boredom. |
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Just got back from a three week trip to New Zealand. The new pic is me on the Fox glacier.
Spent my days kayaking in the sounds and fjords, hiking in forests and on glaciers, and mountain biking. Damn fun. Gotta do it again. |
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Just finished watching season 2 of Dexter. Bought season 3.
Love that show. About the only TV I watch.
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There is a certain joy in inflicting pain on someone who wants it. Watching their face contort between agony and ecstasy is as sublime a pleasure as the act itself.
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Hope you had a happy Solstice and spent the longest night of the year in the arms (or shackles) of someone special.
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Been bitten by the facebook bug. It's like crack only cheaper.
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To all of you who care about such things:
Merry Christmas
Joyous Agnostica
Happy Kwanzaa
Merry Yule
Happy Hanukkah
Joyful Solstice
Merry Festival of Frost
and if I missed anyone, may you enjoy the season as well.
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Just got back from vacation in NY (Upstate, not NY City, there really is a whole state there, ya know.) visiting family and friends. Feel rejuvenated.
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Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he isn't,
and a sense of humor to console him for what he is.
-Sir Francis Bacon
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It is beauty that captures one's attention, but personality that captures the heart.
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Really enjoying spending my weekends in San Fransisco. I could definitely live there, maybe I will.
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"A little inaccuracy sometimes saves tons of explanation."
-Saki
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“If death meant just leaving
the stage long enough to change costume and come back as a new
character...Would you slow down? Or speed up?” -Chuck Palahniuk
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"If the trials of life truly make us stronger, I should be bench pressing Cadillacs by now."
-Bob the Squirrel
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"If you want fine wool, it's better to befreind the shepard than the wolf." - anonymous |
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Finally have the chance to enjoy Califnornia now that the fires are mostly out. Turns out without the smoke it's pretty nice here. Enjoying some hiking and mountain biking. |
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Success;
To laugh often and much;
to win the respect of intelligent people and affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false freinds;
to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a graden patch or a redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson |
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One more day untime my licensing exam. Looking foreward to it. Real life here i come.
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"Always do what you want and say what you think. Those who mind do not matter, those who matter will not mind."
-Dr. Seuss |
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"If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There's no point in being a damn fool about it."
-W.C. Fields |
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"Life is getting up one more time that you've been knocked down."
-John Wayne |
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"How glorious it is and also how painful to be an exception."
-Alfred de Musset |
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There seems to be some strange connection between renaissance fairs, star-trek, and BD/SM. Seems that if you like one, then you're probably into the other. I wonder which interest leads to which? |
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"If tin whistles are made out of tin, what do they make Fog-horns out of?"
-The Frantics |
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If you are going to ask for messages that are longer than a few sentences, then your responses should be as well. If you expect face pics, then you'd better have one of your own. |
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Quote:
"We have enough youth. How about a fountain of smart?"
-George Carlin |
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Quote of the week:
"Sex without pain is like food without taste."
-Marquis de Sade |
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Quote of the week:
Programming today is a race between software engineers striving to build bigger and better idiot-proof programs, and the Universe trying to produce bigger and better idiots. So far, the Universe is winning.
-Author Unknown
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Quote of the week,
"Beauty in distress is much the most affecting beauty."
-Edward Burke |
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After having to write so many responses that are all essentially the same thing, I will put something here.
I am not interested in a Cyber relationship. If cybersex is what you're after, don't waste my time.
I will not meet with you until I've gotten to know you first. Far too many crazies out there.
If all you are looking for is sex, I'm certain you can find that at the local bar, but you will not find it with me. I want a little more out of my realtionships than a walking blow-up doll.
Now that all that negativity is out of the way, If you want to get to know me, I'm game.
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