I am 23, and I am currently looking for a mentor (male or female) and/or a mistress. I am semi-new to the lifestyle but I love it, I couldn't imagine my life vanilla. I am also looking for friends and anyone who is willing to help teach me about it. I am in a relationship with the man of my dreams. He is brand new to the ls though. It is very hard for me to explain it to his am I am newish and a submissive (I just don't feel right telling him what to do). The more and more I read about the different types of BDSM relationships the more I feel like a little/ daddy dom relationship would work best for us. I know nothing about this other then what I read. If anyone would be willing to help I would greatly appreciate it!