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About A50sValuesGirluk
Hello.
Can I thank you for taking the time to look at my profile.
My name is Scarlett, I have never been involved in this before, and to be honest a lot of what I have seen makes me a little nervous
So how have I got here, I was in a long term relationship (6 years) in which my ex was unfaithful, which left me questioning what I had done wrong and what I could of done more.
My friends kept saying that I had done nothing wrong, but I felt deep inside I failed to please him and give he wanted.
Which after the hurt I was going through, opened the door to a bit of self discovery and looking for what I wanted.
So I started with what I wished for my self and what would make me happy, and came to the decision that a I don't wish or need a career.
I wish to have a loving husband, be the doting wife, and a home maker and mother. Which in turn led me to finding the whole 1950's life style and following that the relational of my submissive nature.
So I started looking at that part of me, and I found this description that I feel sums me right up:-
The natural submissive. Also called true submissive. This type of individual seems to have been born submissive. It goes beyond the sexual aspects of the BDSM and is a normal part of their makeup. It is their nature to please others and readily relinquish their personal power with little or no urging from their dominant.
So there's the history and now to the future.
I need to talk to people with like minded ideas that don't see me as a freak or strange but accept me as I am.
So here I find my self looking to find those people to chat to.
I have also found these points which i feel strongly about:-
1. Submission does not indicate lack of intelligence or motivation. Most submissives are very intelligent, creative and are highly motivated people.
2. Submission is not something that can be demanded or forced. The definition of the word means it is a willing act. A submissive submits because they have chosen to do so, not because someone forced them.
3. Submission does not indicate sexual promiscuity. Submissives are not sex crazed nymphomaniacs who cannot control their drives. Most are husbands or wives, mothers or fathers, friends, neighbors, workers, or family members who have a need to relinquish control of some aspects of their lives to someone they trust. It isn't a sex thing...it's a condition of the heart.
As I said before that this is all new to me but politeness is not. so please respect that. in the messages you send me. politeness rewards its self
Look forward to hearing from you.
Scarlett
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