A1phaMail

"Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power"

- Oscar Wilde

Time for a rethink and stock take, not quite a spring cleaning but hopefully enough to blow the cobwebs away.

Firstly no, I don't list my likes and dislikes for one simple reason people on here are to quick to judge you on a silly set of criteria that may or may not align to yours. You may not like olives yet I do, that does not mean you should not talk to me because of that. The same with likes and dislikes on here. Communication is key in any relationship never mind the kind we crave and need, so judge me on what I say and do not where I decide to put an x in a box.

Secondly, no cock pics from me. What is the point, I mean it is not my best feature and as I am not expecting you to look me in the cock (well not straight away ;) that's for sure) then you will only get face shots.

Thirdly, I do not want to do long, drawn out conversations on here. Yes obviously we need to message here first to establish if there is mutual interest but I will look to chat on the phone and via text/whatsapp/kik before meeting up. A simple 3 stage process to meeting as that is where we find out if the chat is real.

Fourth, I love flesh but crave the mind. I want the mental side of BDSM as much if not more than the sexual side. I get off on the control, I crave the look when I say something and it is done, I thrive on taking control as you let go.

So me:

Sane, sensual and incredibly naughty (just look into my eyes, well maybe not the profile one as I'm wearing sunglasses!). I am an Alpha by reputation and to my core. I naturally lead and people follow in my professional as well as personal life. I have 2 businesses, one pays for the other at the moment until the second is self sustaining.

I work hard but play harder. I am as much at home entertaining in a bar as snuggling up on a couch.

You:

Sane, sensual, tactile, not a doormat. Have your own mind and thoughts and not afraid to speak them. A woman who craves control but will not release it easily.