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VolatileBeauty

Hello, everyone.
I suppose I should put a bit of information in here about me to get this started a bit. I'm not the typical 'sub' you see here, I have many strange quirks and I'm not extremely hopeful in meeting someone who gets me, but what the hell, it's worth a bit of effort to see what comes of it.
First off, I feel it is important to know that I am not here for a quick fix, one night stand, play time, or part time visitors to my bedroom or their dungeon. And I mean it. I am extremely old fashioned, I won't even discuss sex and such with someone until I am comfortable with them and actually like them. I am sure this is hard to believe, but it is very true.
I am extremely old fashioned, someone with a very old soul. I still believe in having my door opened and held, I believe in no kissing on a first date, and chivalry in the forms it is no longer seen anymore. I believe in men who believe in honor, strength, self worth, and dignity. Most of all, honesty. I can't count how many say they share these beliefs, only to turn out they really have no clue.
I am strictly against the laziness society has allowed in relationships. Lies, fallacies, and facades being the main lure for women, instead of truth and integrity. I don't like excuses, I don't like bullshit. I am as honest and loyal as can be, and expect the very same. You'd be surprised how easily the difference can be seen, so please, keep your games and playing, to yourselves.
I am not looking for extreme kink, I've always considered myself more of a babygirl than a leather, whips, and chains subbie. I like beautiful female things, sensuality, tenderness. Not cold cruel handling. This of course does not negate discipline or rough carnal activities, but if your idea of discipline is putting me on a leather cross, with a huge buttplug in my ass while you cane me with clamps on every fold and bump of my skin, I'm not your girl.
Romance is key to anything, and I expect it. Dinner, movie, walks on the beach, all things that today seem cliche used to. at one time, have true meaning. Taking a woman out for a night on the town did not instantly mean she had to put out at the end of it. I want that romance, charm, and wit so easily forgotten these days because the main goal is how quick you can get your hand in someone's pants to make them moan.
I'm emotional, reactive, and though almost always a very logical and methodical thinker, I am still very much a girl when it comes to my feelings. I am very intuitive, I take words at face value and put them into perspective. Most things unseen today in forms of manipulation and such do not go over my head, like most women these days.
If what I have said makes sense, then by all means contact me for a chat. If you think this is funny, out of date, or just not possible, then continue on your journey and best of luck to you.

1/25/2013 9:37:09 AM

A few things to note, maybe this will help cut back on the spam I am receiving. I'm not here to play a popularity game, and I'm not here to give my attention to every penis wielding person who messages me. If I find your profile tasteless, your message to me lifeless, and your basic demeanor lacking any sort of exciting intellect or wit, I probably won't  have anything to say to you, even out of courtesy. So here's a few situations to be avoided if you'd rather not be told 'I'm not interested' or will complain about my 'lack of manners' for not responding to your message, that you chose to send of your own volition to gain my attention, and it failed. If you send me a message with 'Hi' and only one or two words following it, usually mentioning something about my looks, I will delete and probably block. If you say you read my profile then go down into your list of kinks, toys, or titles, I'd probably expect the same reaction as the last. If you can't take the time to write a thoughtful message, with punctuation, a good level of properly spelled words and coherent comprehensible thought, you may not get a reply. If you have pictures of your cock in your profile, you're not getting anywhere either. If you mention looking for play partners, multiple women, or anything that states you just want a fuck, don't expect my attention. I am sure there are others but I'll just add those as I run across the situations I suppose. If you think this takes away from my 'submissiveness' and telling you up front what turns me off and makes me have no interest whatsoever, then "I praise you oh mighty Dom... now be gone". If you think a woman should not know herself well enough to be able to articulate what she wants and doesn't, because you are Dom/Lord/Master/Everything to her, and you will tell her what she needs and desires then while I'm giggling my ass off, do continue to such women. And guess what? If you want to go over all the things that make me 'not submissive' then great, on your knees boy and let's play a game of Domination.

1/12/2013 11:58:07 PM

So... I'm off and on with this thing, I don't really have the desire to answer emails all day, I do that enough day to day. But every once in a while it's worth it when I get in contact with someone worth the attention. Then... there is also the humorous things that tickle me, and I suppose their is a bit of emotional sadist in me for getting off on such things. "I refuse to talk to anyone who says they are submissive but does not demonstrate it in real life." I think he missed the memo about this being the internet. And seriously, if you're wanting someone to 'demonstate' their submissive nature to you through such, don't bother contacting me. I don't bow down to just anyone, and definitely not through letters typed out online. Sorry fellas! Though.. you'd think one may have gotten the gist of that through my profile? Oh well...