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Hey, I know it's a long read, but give it a shot.....
I am the ever elusive decent dom guy with a twist. I've been described as scary smart, quite, outgoing, irreverent, loyal, trustworthy, aggressive, dominant (but oddly enough not domineering), passionate, and at times painfully honest. I've been tying people up since about the age of eight, but my current focus is on mind fucks, power exchange and humiliation. For me the biggest turn on comes from the before and after parts of the scene. I enjoy seeing how people’s minds work, and how that influences their actions. I collect gear, (more on quality than quantity.) As far as the gear goes, I have a reasonable collection of leather, metal, impact, and electrical toys and I’m beginning to design my own dungeon furniture for the play space I will eventually have.
For non-scene stuff, I like to read heaps and heaps of things, everything from sci-fi to classic Russian poetry, to technical papers and even manuals. My favorite philosophers are Kant and Nietzsche. My heroes tend to be thinkers (i.e. Richard Feynman), people that contribute to society (Gandhi, Edison, S Clemens, etc.) For music, everything from Ramstein to Fogelburg is coo, but it's mostly country that I listen tol. I prefer to hang out with people who know things I don’t and who are also willing to learn from me. After all a non-interactive lecture over coffee doesn’t sound very fun does it? When I first meet people I’m usually pretty quiet, initially, but I warm up pretty quickly. I only pick on people I like because the one’s I don’t like I deem unworthy of my time and energy.
In a boy the things I think I' looking for are, a submissive streak, confidence, an experimental mindset, INTELLIGENCE (preferably the scary kind), an exuberance for physically activity but not a gym bunny, analytical but still emotional. I know people don’t normally like clingy guys, but I like a little cling wrap with my meat. I have a thing for geeky guys, shorter guys, dark hair, and blue eyes, but DON’T let that stop you from talking to me. It’s more about the complete package than any individual feature. I'd love to meet subs/play friends to connect with, possibly play with, or "heaven forbid" teach me something. (I am totally aware that subs can be intelligent and add to my life.) If some sort of relationship grows out of that over time, great, but I'd rather get to know you than just slap a collar around your neck. He doesn't have to be into everything on my “list” (which is necessarily incomplete.) As a matter of fact I prefer that we be different in some ways.
Sadly, I've had to add a limits list, so here they are. This list too is incomplete as I acknowledge that there are more things under the sun then either you or I have dreamed of
Hard Limits - I don't even want to poke at these
- Anything that smells bad (such as roman showers, puke and so forth)
- Real animals. Puppy play with human puppies is way cool. Not so with animal type puppies.
- People who can not consent, so minors, drunk people, people who are otherwise intoxicated, and so forth
Soft limits - these require negotiation BEFORE HAND
- Consent play - want to play with whether you consent or not? Then negotiate it. Unless I've known you and played with you for a long time, then no this isn't happening.
- anything permanent again, only after a long time and with a lot of discussion
- Women. I don't normally play with women, but on occasion I allow it.
DDF as of 4/22/2014
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