Listen, i'm from the REAL world.

And in the real world, we deal with things a bit differently than here on the internet. ESPECIALLY here on FetLife.

In the real world, you gain respect by WHOM YOU ARE and what YOU BRING TO THE TABLE.

NOT how many friends you have.
NOT how many titles you have.
NOT who you're protected by.
NOT your list of fetishes.
NOT whatever made up title you carry.

Being in this lifestyle for about 10 years now without ever knowing about this place, i can tell you that I've never ran into a problem anywhere that i've went. People recognize what you're about, just by looking at you. At least, the smart ones do.

Women gravitate towards the man whom carry's himself with a certain presence.
I'm good OUT there. Believe me when i say, i'm very good out there.

But here, this is a whole new world...a whole new understanding, it's too easy....it's far toooo easy on here. "Paying dues" is gone. The internet took the growing pains away....you no longer have to earn your stripes. It's too accessible with anyone whom owns a computer or a smartphone.

The internet killed this underground scene and it marketed it with books and movies...this lifestyle is dying because it no longer carries worthy and authentic participants.

It's like this...the 20 year old's are just caught up in the BDSM lifestyle boom thanks to fifty shades of grey. Their curiosity led them here because it's "Intriguing."

...the 30 year olds are tired of vanilla sex and websites like okcupid, plenty of fish and match so they decided to push their envelope by signing up on here. They've yet to fully understand how any of this works. Just because they had maybe 1 good experience in the random fucks that they've had, which was slightly decent. They keep searching for that reoccurring theme...but BETTER. So hence why they are still yet SO indecisive with what it is that they EXACTLY want and what their true title really is...hence the "Switches."

And then the 40 year olds....oh the 40 and up club. Mr...i'm going to sign up on here to see what young pussy is all about because i'm tired of my wrinkly old wife. Or Miss...i've been married for the last 25 years and his dick game was so bad, i finally want to experience EVERYTHING, EVERYONE and ANYTHING because i still don't know who i am and what i want BUT i do know that it's MY TIME. Which leads to signing up to a place like this. Or maybe, they just want to abuse men because they've been abused by men their whole lives both in the mental and physical form. Which then leads to them signing up to fetlife to become Domme's and return the favor.