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| Some info about myself:
Curious male. Would like to experience being dominated. Cannot afford to travel outside of the Bay Area (California) area at this time unless there is work I am able to do there. In other words, I am willing to relocate only if I am able to live there without being dependent on someone else.
I am bad at talking to people normally as if I am not careful, I say things in a way that is easily misinterpreted. In addition, I'm known for being blunt as I tend to state my honest thoughts.
I have some skill with computers, mostly software side, but I have no certification at this time. I am generally a jack of all trades when it comes to skills (I like to learn a bit of everything), but I am a gamer and an anime lover by nature.
There are a few things that I enjoy doing once I start, but I don't actively go out to do as well as things that I actively go out to do, but don't enjoy. Once I make up my mind to do something, I generally do what I can to accomplish it.
I have gone through the interest list. If I have an opinion on it, I have selected an option. If I do not have an opinion on it (due to lack of actual experience and interest/ability to pursue), then I selected 'no opinion'. If I have only an inconsequential amount of experience in the item, I likely did not choose any experience level. If I have at least enough experience to know enough to explain a bit if necessary, then I likely selected beginner.
The type of relationship I hope to earn:
I am more of a bottom than a sub and would prefer to be a bottom or sub over a dom or top. As for dom/sub relationships, my current opinion is that it is whenever you are with each other as well as in any situation agreed upon by all parties involved.
I am not interested in an online only relationship. While having a few initial conversations online to see if our interests and personalities line up is fine, I believe that online only relationships have their limits.
As far as long term relationships go, I would love to build up a relationship; however, I've never tried being a sub before and thus I would not know if it will work out.
I am currently not interested in being a dominant for various reasons, including that I want experience as a submissive. I may change my mind, but unless we are at least a near-perfect match, that is doubtful. However, just in case that does happen, I am modifying my profile for both situations.
For the first few conversations, I will prefer to stay using the site's message system. Do not expect me to be okay with switching to emails early on. This is due to a lot of phishing messages I get.
I will insist that the first meeting be in-person and in a public location with discussion about non-sexual subjects. Second meeting will never be the same day as the first meeting. For all early meetings will have both parties inform a trusted person to call during the meeting at either regular or random intervals. For later meetings, a trusted person should still call, though it might be at random instead of every meeting. This is for safety.
My expectations:
First and foremost, that you respect both yourself and myself. This includes not expecting me to change to fit your desires as well as not expecting me to try to change you to fit my desires. Change can happen, but do not try to force it.
Secondly, I am not some mindless drone that will just serve anyone. While I do have certain desires that may give that appearance at times, there has only been one person that I've ever served without question and who I have considered a true Master of mine; this had nothing to do with dominant and submissive, but rather was Mine Master who held my absolute loyalty.
Third, back to respect, I expect that we both ensure our safeties. This means taking precautions on both sides for what to do if something happens.
Fourth, if you come to me as a dominant, I expect you to take it seriously. By that, I expect you to come at me with the expectation that if I find you suitable, that I will give you my loyalty. If either side doesn't find the other suitable, that we will break it off before either gets too attached. If you come at me as a submissive, I also expect you to take it seriously and truly consider whether I am the best match for you.
Fifth, I am not into financial domination in the sense of giving money to the dominant. This is purely my opinion. While I understand that some people have such a fetish, I believe some take it too far to the point where it unhealthy. If you are into financial domination as a submissive to me, I would expect it to be a domination of the sort where I would control how you spend your money rather than you giving it to me.
Finally, I do believe that being together as a dominant or a submissive is a relationship. It may be a different sort of relationship than some, but it is still a relationship. This means all sides should care for each other.
My limitations and limits:
There may be exceptions, but as a general rule, I believe in safety being a priority. I am against doing anything that may cause a permanent change or harm as well as anything where my mind deems the risks of loss of life are too high. I generally will want to have an emergency plan in the event something goes wrong, such as a natural disaster or sudden physical ailment. Having plans for some absurdly unlikely scenarios ahead of time have kept me alive through several dangerous situations.
I may seem excessively cautious, but that is as a result of several factors. If anyone tries to ignore my limits, with the exception of someone I've accepted as a permanent master, I will ignore.
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I'm effectively recovered, though I have to be careful of another relapse and my body is much worse for wear as a result of my long illness. It seems that my journal entry about that wasn't saved due to having to hit another button after hitting save changes.
If I have not contacted you back after a message, it was likely due to that your message either was too similar (or exactly the same) as a message from another user, flagged as spam, or if it completely ignored certain limits I have stated (in other words, I didn't find what was desired to be safe).
There may be a few messages I didn't reply to due to other circumstances. I apologize for that and plan to look more carefully through my mail later. |
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Finally managed to move out of a rather bad situation and am almost fully recovered.
I'll apologize now for any mail that I haven't read or haven't responded to. |
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Something that I want to try: Short term orgasm denial to cock torture (such as spices) + long tease to ruined orgasm to post orgasm torture.
Apologies for any messages I may have missed last week. |
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Finished moving from Santa Rosa and finished most of the unpacking from the move. Finally somewhat freed up my schedule. |
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Finished the second set of packages. Will likely move the last set on the 24~25th. Aside from that, I'm mostly free this month now. |
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Finished packing, will be up sometime this month to hopefully finish moving. |
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Will be going back to the old place this weekend to work on packing. |
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Ended up moving to a new city. Not far from where I used to live, but not familiar with this area. |
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