Perhaps you don't even know what polyamory is. We didn't know what it was for years ourselves. If you don't know what it is, you might want to look on the Internet and research it before reading this. Polyamory (also called "responsible non-monogamy" and "polyfidelity" and "open relationships," amongst other things) means as many different things as there are number of people practicing it. The one thing almost everyone practicing polyamory has in common is that we believe in honesty in relationships, unlike the serial monogamy and/or cheating of many mainstream relationships.

Let me backtrack to describe the relationship between my husband and me. We are best friends and make each other laugh and are our biggest fans. We are lovers and our love making is passionate and spiritual and fun. There is no one that I trust more in the world than my husband, and he would say the same, of me. We'd had conflicts during our years together yet we'd always resolved them. We are happy and healthy.

He is 37 and I am 35. He is 6’2 and 170 lbs., athletic, fit, trim, broad shoulders and very clean cut. He has the most beautiful blue piercing eyes, with a golden brown complexion. He wears his hair cut extremely short (military style). I am 5’5 and 160 lbs., average body style, athletic with a few excess pounds. I have short blonde hair, green eyes and lots of freckles. We have two children from my husband’s previous marriage whom reside out of state with their mother. We are a family of a career path that is ever changing. I adore home cooking and baking. I am an excellent cook. I prepare meals daily and we sit at the table having our meals as a family. He loves to have homemade desserts after his evening meal. So, normally I prepare a fresh pie or cake every few days. Cookies are amongst his fav’s too. I love sew, quilt, crochet, take walks, garden and plant my flowers each spring in all my pots.

We are a Dominant M/F couple who's ideally seeking a fulltime submissive special Bi-female that is in search as well of joining a Polyamory lifestyle / Polyamory Family. She would be ***willing to relocate*** that is first and foremost. Relocation assistance is available. She would be caring, patient, kind, submissive, energetic, thoughtful, loving, spiritual (not necessarily religious) honest, trustworthy, forgiving, D/D free, with/with-out children. She would be open to the willingness of possibly conceiving a child in the relationship. She would be a member of the family unit and have the offering of love, commitment and security as in any committed family. She would have the role of a Sister-wife. She should either want to work outside of the home or be committed to caring for the home in the capacity as a homemaker. She should want to participate in the roles sexually that involved all three of us as a triad at all times. She must enjoy “oral” pleasures both receiving and giving. She must enjoy anal play, and be willing to be open-minded in the bedroom. She would want to be accepted and loved. She would want to love both of us in the capacity of a lifelong commitment. We have agreed to specific guidelines of behaviors so as to not leave anyone in the triad feeling, “neglected” or “left out.” This is extremely important as is communication.

GAMES and LYING are BIG turn-offs. She must be DIVORCED…SINGLE…WIDOWED…or NEVER MARRIED.

There are so many entities to be discussed. We are very open and very willing to talk to this special woman interested in being part of our lives. We use Yahoo Messenger and MSN Messenger. We are not wanting to **just** develop and Internet romance that lead’s, “no where.” This is about making a life changing commitment that will begin a new friendship much like a blooming flower that will blossom and develop into something wonderful and beautiful.

Please respond to us, if you feel this is relationship you have been in search of….