I sat here this morning wondering why many inquireies I get are from those who I have no interest in or those who after one or two emails dissapear. Or better yet those that are scams looking to fleese some stupid idiot out of money. I read where women want almost a friggin essay from a Dom hell its like putting in a request for a position if we are in charge why are we not the ones making the rules? Perhaps there is no perfect way to get to know one another. I always thought chatting asking questions and answering them was a good way but the chat rooms here don’t work or chat requests go unreplied. Some say they need the man to make the decisions for them because they cant seem to make good decisions yet they do the picking and often pick the wrong guy duh!
I ‘m of average looks and getting up in years but still have lots to offer. After reflecting on what I’ve observed here in the last four years I’ve realized the Dom is never really the one leading here, we have no say. We strut around like Grackel’s working on a crust of bread each taking our quick hit at it thinking we have a chance at getting away with the whole piece. Usually its grabbed by one only to be carted off and pecked at till he’s had enough and discards whats left. We fluf our plumage in words and pictures much like those same male birds all vieing for the one female. Much like the bird we do not get to pick it’s the female who picks. So how is it we think we are in the lead when we are given the reins allowed to lead or to assume that we do. Well I for one have decided I will not proceed this way I had 20 plus years with one who served me well. Would I like to have more years with another hell yes I’m far from finished but am I willing to settle no. I know who it is I seek and if she comes along I’ll consider myself once again lucky. I wish it were as simple as going to the auction and chooseing the slave that interests you purchaseing her and continuing from there. Alas there is no Santa Claus or Easter bunny and slave markets are for the extreemly weathy.
I know I am rambling most are just personel thoughts and not directed toward any one person. Should any female see something here and think hey this guys not cut from the same bolt of cloth. Perhaps he might be worth talking with give me a short note I’ll respond even if it’s a sorry I don’t think you’re the one I’m looking for .
“ My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! “
Marquis de Sade