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I am a Slave Not a doormat.
PLEASE NOTE: SUBMISSION IS A GIFT TO ALL YOU REAL MASTERS.
Slave GG is bisexual,5ft 8in tall, green eyes, short curly brown Hair. 42k a bbw.
with pierced nipples. I currently have 5 small tattoos., one will be covered up tommorrow 5th October 2011, from a J to a poppy.New picture is up No:5.
I am a semi professional model and i am
poppy46.purestorm.com
I am experienced and have been in to bdsm 19 years.
I am Genuine, trustworthy, honest, truthful, loving and caring.
I am very Respectful, obedient, and Real.
My limits are No knives, No needles, No fire, No scat,and No children, No animals.
My safeword is RED.
I AM WILLING TO CONFIRM WHO I AM BY PHONE, NOT WEBCAM.
Please note i am a NON SMOKER
PLEASE NOTE: I WILL NOT RELOCATE ABROAD.
NOT UNTIL ELDERLY PARENTS NO LONGER NEEDS ATTENTION.
New blog post What Makes up a Good Master?
[Note: In this article, the use of the words “Master” and “slave” is non-gender specific. For expositional convenience only, the Master is referred to as “he” and the slave as “she”.]
The traits that make a good Master will vary from person to person. What is right or what works for one person simply does not work or is just incorrect for someone else.
Self control and motivation
A good Master must be in control of himself before he can exert control over another human being. He needs to have a good balance between vanilla and SM, as well private and professional life.
A good Master has chosen his path for a reason.
Honesty and consistency
A good Master should be true to his word and a living example of what he teaches. He should have the ability to uphold his personal honor and remain true to any agreements between himself and his slave.
Communication, communication, and communication
A good Master needs to be able to express and articulate his emotions. Having the ability to talk and openly discuss “anything under the sun” is an integral part of any relationship. Without open (transparent) and honest communication there is no base on which trust can be built. However, communication is not a one-way street.
Compassion
A good Master has the ability to see and understand the emotional aspects of his slave’s spirit and psyche. He is aware of the multitude of things in life that can affect a slave physically, emotionally and mentally. A good Master is righteous, and shows respect and true love for life.
Leadership and mentorship
“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.” (William Arthur Ward)
Masters are teachers and leaders that need to have the ability to lead and to inspire others. A good Master needs to be able to exert this control in a respectful and intelligent manner. This means that he gives clear direction, firm goals, consistent rules, unambiguous orders, etc. This also includes providing corrections and discipline when necessary. Further, he takes responsibility for his own actions and assumes responsibility for the well-being of his slave. He respects his slave’s needs and limitations - both physically as well as emotionally.
A good Master should also be able to support, teach, and mentor.
Being a leader and mentor means that he needs to have patience.
Most importantly, a good Master observes his slave and develops her to her full potential.
Humility
A good Master knows he is not perfect. He will make mistakes. A good Master shows great respect to everyone. He has earned his respect and title.
Knowledge and willingness to learn
Having control of someone else's life is a tremendous privilege and responsibility. It is therefore important that a good Master makes informed decisions for himself, his slave, and their relationship. A good Master needs to understand his slave's needs and identity, even beyond the roles of their structured relationship. It goes without saying that a good Master should be skillful and knowledgeable in any of the SM practices he engages in.
We never stop learning, whether Master or slave. Remember that the urge to continue to learn is one of the strongest desires and motivations for life itself.
WHAT MAKES A GOOD SLAVE ??
In my relatively short time, I've learned that there are many different ways to live a power/authority exchange dynamic, be it D/s, M/s, or what have you. Each dynamic or relationship is unique but I do see some very general categories. Some of those have aspects that resonate with me, others really really don't.
For me, being a slave means recognizing, embracing, and blossoming into awareness, into my power, strength, and authentic self through surrender, commitment, & service to another (which is ultimately service to something that is far greater than any individual person, call it "the divine", "the sacred", "that which is", whatever).
It's answering the call to no longer hide myself, no longer deny who I am, and to throw off pain, fear, & the dreaded "shoulds" that hide my true nature and keep me from reaching my potential for openness, strength, and peace.
It's taking the journey under the guidance, support, and authority of another, or, if not in a relationship, on your own or with others who love you. I see the Master & slave reaching for the same deeper goals, just through different roles. The Master's on one side of the path and the slave on the other. Sometimes the scenery is different on each side but they're essentially on the same journey.
Thank you for looking at my profile if i am a interest to you please contact me.
With Respect.
SLAVE Strapon GG.
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Master bought a lovely 1930's violet wand in a lovely wooden box, inside a purple velvet layout.
We had it restored by Lord Darkflame, here in Norfolk uk.
Well what can i say, many new sensations, to be liked and disliked, but it relaxes, soothes and make you drift off in to sub space, very quickly.
We alternated it with flogging, cropping, paddle and then the wand, deep sensations making our minds think differently.
Well spending the money on our new toy, was worth every penny, and Master enjoyed the sensual, erotic and stimulation as well.
Cant wait till i see Master again!!!!.
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