Black professional male looking for friendship with a submissive. It's easy for people to call themselves submissive, but submission is more than doing what you're told and having a love for punishment. Here is a short list of my expectations:

1. Have the desire to please. I know the fantasy is to be naughty so you can be punished, but a true submissive wants to please the dominant. Being bad will be hot in the beginning, but the constant power struggle will get old very quickly.

2. Your prior training means absolutely nothing to me. Just because you were able to please someone else does not mean you will be able to please me.

3. Be honest about your wants and needs. Yeah, I know that sounds strange coming from a dominant male, but my sub's emotional health is important to me. There are things you need in order to be happy. During those rare moments when we engage in discussions about your wants and needs, be open and honest.

4. Use your brain. I understand that most dominants like submissives who need micromanaging, but I like a submissive who is capable of understanding and following instructions.

If you are interested in being my sub or friendship only, feel free to send me a message.