I haven't been fully into BDSM for very long. My ex was a bottom, her submission ended out side of sex, but that started my interest B/D, S/M and D/s. I guess you could say I've got over 10+ experience as a Top, but what to explore being a Dom.

Last year, I fell into online training of an inexperienced sub. She's into OTK and Taken-In-Hand, but long distance, w/no or little chance of playing in person. Since neither OTK or Taken-In-Hand (TPE) lends itself to online training very well, I had been training her in Dominance & submission, Discipline, but we are not really interested in the same things, so she was still looking, a recently found  someone local into  OTK,  T-I-H

This has lead me to the realization, I'm more of a Dom than a Top, and that I want a R/L D/s relationship. I'm still open to short-term Top/bottom relationships, but my long term goal is to own a truly submissive slave, in a real life relationship. I don't mind starting out online/cyber play, until trust is build, not to mention distances over come, but I'm looking for an R/L relationship.

I'm looking for a submissive woman interested in D/s or M/s relationship, who not only wants but needs control and structure in her life. She should be excited at the prospect of being used for her owner's pleasure, and life with rules and behaviors enforced.