Collarspace.com

hard core top looking for a woman with a bit of class.  if you are a skank, someone to grovel obsequiously at the feet of a dom whining, i am not for you.  but if you want to glide into the room in a fuzzy bathrobe, let it float to your feet, and take a whipping like a proper lady, this will work.

i am not focused upon any particular age group, but it appears that women over 40 are more likely to have the kind of attributes that i seek in a submissive.  they are more goal-oriented, are often more self-disciplined, and seem to have higher pain thresholds (not for being whipped harder but simply for enduring it like a lady).