"Women should be obscene and not heard"
Groucho Marx

Well after a very long relaxing weekend it's back to work for me tomorrow. 

It's been nice popping back after a years break, things don't change though. Same old rudeness and arrogance from some, subs as well as Doms. All the same it's been good to catch up with a few folks and pleasant to chat to one or two new faces.

All good things come to an end and after a year and half it is my turn to face an ending. Work commitments have taken us to the far ends of the country and there comes a point where email and phone calls simply can't keep the dream alive. So we've parted as good and very close friends.
I still have needs though (as does she) so again I find myself here looking for someone sane, submissive and to be frank also a little masochistic.

I'm taking her for her first visit to a dungeon tomorrow afternoon, yummers!

Seeking Odile ...
... I do believe I've found her.

Hummm the anticipation ...
Meeting the person who may become my new sub on Thursday. Nothing special, a quick luncheon during our respective lunch breaks for a "get to know you" chat even so I'm so looking forward to it. It's been far to long ...
Fingers crossed she's as sane as she appears so far.

I had a lovely afternoon yesterday.
I took some time off work in the afternoon and went to a friend's house. There she ran me a luxurious bath and in which I wallowed for over an hour, gentle scents filled the air as she sat at the end of the bath and one after another she gave me a foot massage. On completion she kindly gave me a tip to toe massage followed by first a hot then cold shower. Absolutely nothing sexual involved, indeed it was hardly sensual or erotic but nevertheless it was exactly what I needed and when I went back to work I was utterly refreshed and relaxed for the first time in weeks (it has been a very busy period for me at work).
What an absolute delight. I shall have to take her for dinner by way of thanks.
… and it just goes to show even to a jaded old pervert like myself there’s more to life than hoods, blindfolds, whips and canes.

At long last whole day off work ... and tomorrow ... better than sex!

14 hour shifts for a week with 3 to 5 hours sleep in between ... cool.
Not!

Seen on a profile, "I'm just here to chat and make new friends"
... I'm not, I'm here for something entirely different Murhahahahahah :-)

Just read on a person's profile ... 

"Any institutions / anyone using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, research or any other reason.

"You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form.

"If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications." 

... I wonder how many other people enjoy the inherent foolishness incumbent in such a comment?

Still raining so no building work for me. Time for a quick surf ...

... and lo and behold she's returned with a new profile (apparently according to her she couldn't access her old profile). And what a delightful profile it is to. Now the thing is we exchanged a few messages a week or two back all very polite that petered away to a nothingness and following my usual practise I "hid" her profile. After all if the spark isn't there why look. But ...

... having popped up again on a new profile I've read it all over again so the question is should I or shouldn't I?

Should I grab a box of matches and instead of trying to strike a tiny spark that might later burst into flames of passion attempt instead to kindle a conflagration that may take her by storm or should I simply accept that even though she does clearly say that she welcomes messages from the older man appreciate that I'm 20 years her senior and more on ...

... but she wishes to be suspended by her breasts, made to ride a pony and I know there's a very good dungeon very close to her. If you've ever placed a sub on a pony, leaving her to squirm for a while before reaching forward, taking her hair and pulling her forward so that her most sensitive organ has to bare her full weight then you'll appreciate the temptation fate has put in my path ...

... of course if it ever stopped raining I could get back in to the garden and the question would be moot.

Bloody British weather.

One gets one's mitre saw, one's table saw and one takes them outside, sets them up on the new and still half complete decking, one gets one's drills and other tools, take them outside, walk to the end of the garden and plug in the power lead, sets out the timber reaching down to take the measurements for the next cut that will result eventually as a new set of wooden steps ...

... and the bloody havens open and it begins to pour down.

And as I'm an atheist it's not as though I can even have a good swear, screaming out, "Oh random fluctuations of the space time continuum" doesn't quite have the same ring to it. Of course what would make things better would be to give someone a damned good thrashing ... if only.

Bugger!

OK ladies, I'm 45 years old, I know what a pair of boobs look like (just as I'm sure you know what a penis looks like), try a little more imagination with your profile pics. Less can be much, much more.

I've just spent an amusing half hour reading the journals of a a few subbies and I have to say I haven't laughed so much in ages the way they rip some so called Doms to pieces. To be frank I'm amazed that any of the subs stay on this site considering some of the abuse they get by the hard of thinking.

Note to some other Doms: "Hello" is far more attractive than "On your knees bitch", you wouldn't introduce yourself on the street that way, why here? Bloody hell, what am I doing giving other doms tips? Can I stand the competition?

Murhahahahahahaha

"I'm a slave with no limits" ...

... yes of course you are my dear. Meanwhile back on the planet sane ...

And whilst I'm here what is it with Americans(*) and shit poetry?

* OK mainly Americans and not all Americans.

Thank you one and all, I now know how to "Unhide" someone.

The "Hide Button" what a great invention, one click and person that is clearly incompatible is removed from view and better still all temptation is removed in respect of those who are clearly uninterested.

But as an aside does anyone know how to "unhide" a person, answers on a postcard please.

Following a short exchange with a very pretty young lady who may have got her "O's" confused ... I don't know, the young generation today and the internet; in my day we had to get by with literature ... 

 Odile or odalisque? Odile, always ...