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SeductivelySub

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Please read updated journal! This is a huge step for me coming onto a website to test the waters, but hey, sometimes in life you have to take a chance! What to say??! Well, I guess I have needs! Needs that sometimes are difficult to discuss on the first few dates!! I'm single (with quite a few admirers) with no children and no desire what-so-ever to change that at the moment! I'm relatively happy, I work hard and often play hard! I'm pretty successful, intelligent, attractive, very feminine, playful, well traveled and cultured. Life is pretty great....but there is a void! Life and relationships are all about balance! I am NOT seeking a sadist or someone who will strip me of my identity or independent mind (no nutters please). I'm seeking a like minded gent to share my darkest desires with. I love to be controlled, I crave discipline and very often need a damn hard spanking! I'm also very affectionate and need the same in return. I like a healthy mix of vanilla, but I also need a man who is prepared to take me to levels that can only be achieved in a Dom - Sub relationship. I do however need kindness and love between times. In return, I will give him my all. x In an ideal world, I'd love to meet an attractive, well established, successful and well respected man, with a very firm hand (which he loves to use) along with a no-nonsense attitude and single!!! I often mix in high circles, my friends are mostly successful and professional. I know how to behave like a lady in public, but have a very naughty streak behind closed doors!! Physical attraction is also quite a big deal for me, I'm well presented and would quite like my Dom to be similar. Age isn't really an issue, but I do prefer a man to be older than me (age gaps are quite a good thing in my eyes)! Most importantly, I'm a very private person and discretion is a huge must as is trust and honesty!! I'm not sure the ideal man I seek even exists but as I say, I'm testing the waters to see if there is anyone in my area that can meet my submissive desires..... I warn you! I'm known to be very naughty at times! I need a strong man to keep me in line! xxx
9/22/2012 12:37:25 AM

UPDATE: I think I may have found my potential Dom and we are moving things forward to meet in two weeks. 

I'm still more than happy to respond/chat to Doms/friends I've met on CM if they so wish, but out of respect for him, I can't take anything further with anyone else until my Dom & I establish our future direction! 

This is a massive step for me, I have never had a full time D/S relationship, but I am one of the genuine seekers on CM and have decided to take a plunge.... 

Wish me luck!! ;O)

 

9/20/2012 9:30:12 AM

Wow this site really is something!  I've just been accused of being fake!  Laughable really considering!  Thank you to the polite and respectable Doms on here who make this risk worth while.  I wish you all the very best in your search. xx