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	It takes more than sex to get me off. Control, dominance, and causing humiliation and pain get me off. I have always been the dominant one in my relationships ever since I started dating. I have always been attracted to submissive women. Oddly enough though, I did not know that the idea of dominance and submission being a lifestyle even existed until about 2006. To me it was just natural. Over the years I have trained girls, owned girls, micro-managed girls, punished girls, and loved girls. Some were purely for mutual experience and learning, some were because we felt the connection and craved the relationship. Some have gone because that was how it was planned. Some are gone and are missed deeply. I may not be your Master, but I am A Master and just as most subs do not expect to be treated like a doormat by everyone, I do expect a certain level of respect when conversing with someone- just as I would treat you. I have worked hard to learn what I have and continue to learn what I can. I don't expect you to call me Master, but I hope that you respect the position. I do not expect someone to fall at my feet and surrender everything all at once, but I do expect to be able to see the submissive side of you. If you claim to be a submissive or slave and I just don't see it in your personality, I will probably assume that this is a waste of both of our time. I am more than a list of fetishes and while I could fill this page with more information than some of you may care to read, I would prefer a more "intimate" experience. If you want to know about me, ask me. Contact me. I like submissive women, but they should be able to take the step in making a connection. Also, and I will say please (make sure you mark the date on the calendar because I don't say please often...)- Please, if I contact you or you contact me and we get into a discussion- please have more to say than 2 lines really quickly and leaving the entire conversation up to me. I put a lot into talking and getting to know someone and I would appreciate the same returned. I do get tired of sending an eight paragraph letter to get a 2 line response. Intelligence is high on my list of things that I look for- if you can't hold a conversation you won't be able to hold my attention. And if you really want to get my attention- the dirtier the message the more likely I will respond. I like a dirty girl... I am interested in either an online relationship or a real time relationship. Either way, I am looking for a long term (even lifelong) relationship. I love women of all shapes and sizes, ages, and colors.

9/8/2011 9:47:47 AM

Goals are created to help guide the things that we do to achieve a purpose. Our goals may change over time when our purposes shift. Here are a set of goals that I have set for myself.

1- To train my girl to the best of my abilities.

2- To keep open communication with my girl at all times.

3- To be honest with my girl and hide nothing from her so that she can keep all her decisions made with all the facts in tact.

4- To push my girl when needed to keep her on track of her training so that she can learn to serve as best as she can.

5- To respect my girl's needs/limits and do my best to work with those guidelines at all times.

6- To keep my girl from harm- mentally or physically- to the best of my abilities at all times so that she remains healthy and is able to bring me pleasure.

7- To punish my girl when she is in need so that she may learn how to better direct her actions in a form that I find pleasing, yet love, cherish, and adore her at all times (a firm, yet loving hand) for who she is and the pleasures that she does bring me.

8- To direct all of my efforts into my girl and her training- making her as important to me as I should be to her.

9- To explain to my girl anything that she asks of me- whether a question on lifestyle subjects or questions about her training/punishments, or just advice and guidance she may need in every day life.

10- To hold my girl firmly. To guide her, to teach her, to control her, to love and care for her. At all times.

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slavegrrl1976

TwistedSpitfire

Age: 43

Lawrence, Kansas