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About me
The "Lifestyle"
Dominant, but not in the strictest or most traditional sense. Dom tendencies, but with a gentleman's flourish.
However, that's not to say that I can't take off the gentlemans' jacket and tie, if that's what you need. Although I am a gentleman, I understand that, sometimes, the last thing you want me to be is a gentleman. That's okay. Sometimes, the last thing I want you to be is a lady.
I enjoy rope bondage, as well as flogging/impact play and several types of sensory/sensual play.
But nothing beats a good mind fuck.
My tastes vary from person to person, because my relationship is different with everyone in some way or another.
Speaking of relationships...
The best term to describe me is "monogamish". That is, I want/need only one full-time, emotional, capital "R" relationship at a time. That person is my focus; they come first (so many jokes!) in all respects. If I have time and mental/emotional capacity left over after the needs of that relationship are filled, then I'm open to play and/or sex with others that I connect with in some way.
People who fall outside of the capital "R" relationship are not secondary; that implies that they are less important, and they are not. They are simply not my focus, which not the same thing as being less important.
Those people who are not the other half of my main focus get my time and attention when, and how, I can give it. If you're looking for equal-footing polyamory, keep looking, because this ain't it. I do my best to make time for these other people as often as possible; however, it's a balancing act, and I'm only human. I do what I can, when and how I can, and if you're okay with that, then we might work well together.
I'm not a man-whore in any sense; if we don't have a connection of some sort, then we're not going to do anything except have a nice coffee date and then go our separate ways.
I don't play for the sake of playing, and I don't fuck for the sake of fucking. Life's too goddamn short as it is, I'm not going to waste my time or yours if it's not going to work for one or both of us.
Outside The "Lifestyle"
I identify as heterosapiosexual.
Despite occasional outward appearances to the contrary, I'm an introvert (INTJ), and an intensely private person. It may take a while for me to open up to you, and for you to get to know me on anything more than a friendly or superficial level. All I can do is tell you that I'll try and make it worth your while to spend the time getting to know me.
I have many interests outside of kink. I'm a bit of a jack-of-all-trades geek/nerd. Some of the things I enjoy include reading, cooking, camping, driving, a handful of computer and board games, coffee, and conversation, interesting or otherwise.
And if you have any questions, please feel free to ask. That's what the message button is for, after all! :)
"If you go home with somebody and they don't own any books, don't fuck them." - John Waters
"Buy the ticket. Take the ride." - Hunter S. Thompson
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