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RedFox583

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Young couple (girl switch, male Dom...somewhat) looking for Domme/sub/switch women in the SF area, for pleasure and/or friendship.

That looks suitably personal-addish...

Anyway, back in the area from exile in the Deep South, and frankly we're both dying for more interesting people to be around, in and out of bed. Rather inexperienced at kink, for all my 2+ years of fetish modeling - attended FetishCON in Tampa two years running, have lots of ropes and instruction books and a flogger and...kind of a "Now what?" feeling. I'm more into kink than he is, on either end of the leash - I'm very, very interested in power play with other women. We're not really looking for anything serious, just occasional playmates and friends, and the absolute minimum in drama; our experiences with inviting others into the bedroom has been very mixed and way more of a headache than either of us ever planned.

Out of the bedroom, we're rather geeky people - we play World of Warcraft (several servers), go to Renn Faires as much as possible, attend Gaskell's, and read an awful lot. The boy is an expert swordfighter, and I'm, well, good arm candy. No idea what else to say other than drop us a line if you'd like to chat!

Oh, and obviously, no guys PLEASE. I have one, I don't need another, and he's straight.

(The likes/dislikes etc. are mostly mine for now - waiting for him to get home to review.)
10/19/2006 12:42:06 AM
First post. I am slightly nervous about having a profile up here. I am rather more into kink than he is, and most people I've seen on here is SO into kink it's kinda scary. I'm not vanilla, but I'm certainly not rocky road, either! It seems hard to find a girl in the middle ground, and if I bring home somebody too kinky for my boy it could be...bad. ~

On the other hand, if this goes well and sans drama, I'm really hoping we can get, not only some playmates, but some *friends* out of this. ~

So...nervous, but hopeful. Ideally I/we'll find somebody on here who I DON'T have to be the first girl for, is interested in power play and BDSM (at least with me!), is actually on the same maturity level as us, and that we won't have to watch make the same silly freshly-into-college mistakes our last female playmate is currently making. I feel like we're her parents sometimes; wanting to tell her to be careful and use condoms and FFS girl do NOT get drunk at that frat party! ...yea, I'm kinda done with that. I'm also done with her trying to turn MY boy into HER boy, however unintentionally she was doing it. She tried to correct what she was doing whenever it was brought up, but would still relapse, and even after she's backed off a lot my back still goes up sometimes when she calls, which is not the way to treat someone I"m trying to keep as a friend. We need a girl who is cool with friendship, not a romantic relationship... ~


...unless we ALL feel that way about each other. I almost don't even want to think about it, it would be such an insanely long shot...a switch-girl we both like, and likes both of us...  ~


Pipe dreams. ^_^

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This kinda turned into a rant. I feel kinda like I'm about to go onstage to represent myself, and my hopes and dreams, and also my boy's hopes and dreams, and try with all my heart to get the audience to like me. I guess this would be my prologue, then? Or maybe just a pre-show pep talk. The kind where the cast joins hands and sends the pulse around, to remind ourselves we're all connected, and all important, no matter how small a part we serve.

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Mmm. I miss theatre. Must do more once our lives settle.