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It all really depends on looks, chemistry, boundaries, needs, etc. and meeting is the only true way to figure that out, but here's the written part.
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Im a fun, adventurous, educated, travelled, intelligent, former green beret, business owner, and all around super cool awesome guy :) ?
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HWP, straight, white, good looking, squeaky clean, red head, ?Five foot ten, one hundred ninety, an actual 8x6, strong, athletic with ten extra pounds. Not a male model, no hard abs, but a good looking masculine man.
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---I like kinky sex not kink----
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I don't do kink for kinks sake. As I read somewhere else, my kink is the seasoning on top of incredible meal of sex. The seasoning is not satisfying by itself. ALL my play is sexual
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I prefer sex that is primal and raw,?forceful, commanding, very few boundaries, as much psychological as physical. Spanking and hair pulling, bondage, Daddy/little girl, Slave/Master, other D/s play, ?rough, choking, rape play. We start easy and experiment to find what works for both of us. Look at my groups to the left and you can build a decent picture of what we will do.
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I am physically and psychologically strong enough to make you do whatever I want.?Forcing and struggling is one way to express D/s. One partner having the physical power to take what he wants, the other being forced to give her all. I will pick you up and toss you around. I will pin you down and you can fight as hard as you want.
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I like to be in control of your pleasure and in control of your body. You can struggle, but I'll win; and therefore so will you :) on that note, we will engage in orgasm training, control and conditioning, I've taught all of my regular playmates to G and Deep spot, to squirt, and to be able to orgasm hands free, conditioning them to my voice and touch. To be clear: I will train you to be multi-oragmic at the thought of me, cumming for me whenever and wherever I tell you to. Yes, such a cruel SOB I am ;-)
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I can express my desires many different ways, if you are submissive we can find the right expression of our desires that gives us both the satisfaction we need. I'm not into props or outfits, a constructed "scene", etc. I want my sex and kink to be organic and melded with everyday life. I can do most everything I want with my mind, body, and a firm hand:) (and some rope, and an occasional belt;) ) my kink is very partner dependent and full time.
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Talking is critical, are lots of ways to play and a middle ground has to be found that both want. I've found starting vanilla and letting the nature of the kinky relationship dynamics organically grow through talking and experimentation, rather than set out with certain things in mind. The reltionship has to match the personalities involved and how we work together, not conform to preexisting ideas of how something should be. I will create a safe and protected place for us, so you can free yourself of fear and express your most intimate desires.
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I own my kink, it doesn't own me. What I mean is I can mold it, change it, modify it, etc to fit the person I'm with and the situation, time, place,.context.
What does that mean to you and I? It means the relationship is mental (and I dare say spiritual) first and foremost, backed up with the physical. It means that what we do with each other resonates with our nature, it is achieving a primal, lower brain deep satisfaction. A Master doesn't need an outfit or certain boots to lead, and a pretty little slave doesn't need to be naked and on her knees' to find her submission (though you'll spend a lot of time like that:-) ) You should be finding who you are with me, if you haven't found her yet
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I don't classify or give constraining labels to my kink. I was early on heavily influenced by John Norman books, but I'm not constrained by that, and I'm not interested in play acting that we are on another world :-) also like many, very early in life I eroticized Sinbad, Batman and Robin (really Batman and Cat Woman) I dream of Genie, etc. while being too young to know it.
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The main difference between myself and Gorean role players is that I'm an actual mature real-life warrior, not play acting, it's who I am, it's what I do. When I say warrior, I mean as in I've been to war many times and am sure to again.
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My breadth and width of things I like is wide and deep.
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You need to be HWP, hot and sexy, and ready to let it all out for nice long sessions. Even better for the long term if you are smart, strong, and sexy.( and basically sane, you don't have to be 100% sane but close) :-) you should love life, have a great and positive attitude. A real smile across your face is one of the things I find most attractive.
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My phenotype would be best described as a snow bunny I.e.a skier body type, muscles with womanly curves. Gymnasts, cheerleaders, other athletic types. I can go thinner or heavier, but that's my middle position. Don't disqualify yourself before even talking to me. I put a lot of importance on the whole package. Like my kink, I own all my preferences, and they are just preferences not mandatories; but my natural preference is for smaller/lighter.
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I'm also very much enjoy Daddy/little girl dynamic, and real life age dynamics. I'm naturally a nurturing, mentoring, and protective Dominant and I enjoy D/lg a lot, I see the dynamic with little girl(s) as being a natural evolution of my kink. And when I say little girls, I mean actual age dynamics. So for age, younger is working for me but a certain age is not something I'm shopping for. The number of years is the absolute least import thing to me. It's what you've put into those years and what you plan to continue to put into them that is far more important.
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Instead of going to a sex club I'd rather be dressed to kill at a normal event and sneak in some kink. Remote control vibrator in a fine restaurant, finging you at the theater, Bending you over the hood of a car in a parking garage while you're in your best dress, heels, and jewelry, etc. Or bringing you to orgasm with just my voice in public. I'll never tie you to a dungeon fixture, but to every piece of furniture in the house, a deck railing, a tree, etc.
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Outside of the bedroom, I spend my time running my business and playing outside in the PNW. Mountaineering, skiing, SCUBA diving, travelling, and generally trying to lead an adventurous, dynamic, and joyous life.
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So lets get that drink and see if there are sparks.
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