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In order to be a true Master, One has to be true to Oneself, in order to be true to his slut of choice. Only then will One be worthy of full control.

Bondage, cuffs and chains. Whipped into submission.
Pleasure and pain.

Dominance. To have the natural aptitude to lead and take control in a respectful, intelligent and convincing manner. To have the natural aptitude to care and to be concerned for Your slut.

Honesty. Being able to be open and genuine in what You say. Do not hide Your feelings and emotions, do not tell Your slut what she wants to hear but also express Your own desires. A good Dom is honest and doesn’t lie. A Dom does not pretend to be what He is not.

Humanity. To be able to be vulnerable, as a person and not just as a Dom. To be able to see that You cannot always be perfect. That One has to grow and evolve. He is confident enough not to be the centre of attention all the time. One does not pretend to know it all. One who intimidates uses His status to play around with His slut without showing respect for her feelings. One who intimidates tries to hide His abuse under the guise of Dominance.

Courtesy. A good Dom is able to be courteous, mannered and polite, even to His slut. A Dom does not ‘have’ to be harsh and/or rude to her.

Elegance. Being able to be elegant is a plus point in many sluts’ eyes. The way a Dom acts, His style (also during sessions) is very important. If One hesitates or acts confused, Your slut might begin to doubt You. You must be willing to learn and grow accustomed to Your style and how You come across.

Loyalty. To be and stay loyal to Your personal honor but also loyal to the agreements which You and Your slut have made. Being unfaithful to the values You and Your slut honor is dangerous for the emotional well-being of Your slut.

Patience. A good Dom is patient. He must be able to wait. That doesn’t mean he has to be indolent or soft, but he has to be able to know when He can push his slut further en when He can’t. A good Dom realizes it will take time to learn or unlearn what You desire from her. You will be patient in training Your little girl.

Service. This doesn’t apply to the same level as to the service a slut provides, but still You provide a service to Your slut by being Dominant and to apply Your natural Dominant feelings and needs to apply these in a good and responsible way, so You concede to her desires and needs. A Dom only exists by the opportunity that He is given by His slut.