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Currently living in Germany, will be relocating to Killeen about May timeframe. I am actively looking for submissives for dialog and possible play upon building a trust level. I am not a sadist, but understand how this type of play is critical to satisfaction of many people. (have and can do the sadist role, but not my favorite) I am more of a sensual Dom. I believe that pain mixed with pleasure is excellent. BUT an intellectual exchange is critical for me. I like to get in the psycology of kink. I am more of a caring dom. But don't get me wrong. I will take you to your limits and will test mine along the way. I will be eventually looking for a long term relationship. But for now, I am only wanting no strings play to experience new things and to enjoy others as well as hone my skills. I have been in the lifestyle for quite some time and have recently came out of a long time relationship.

Pictures available on request, but will not post here due to my work.

1/14/2008 6:49:43 PM
A bit more about me. While I declare myself here as a Dom, I have taken my own walk down the submissive side. I have always been the Dominate figure in all aspects of my life even as a child. But as I grew older I always felt something was missing. I drifted to this lifestyle through my Paganism in that the energy created in session is second to none with the right submissive. I took my walk down the submissive side wanting to release some pent up issues I had due to life experience. I had become totally devoid of emotion and was shall we say NOT a nice guy at all. I mamaged to find and submit myself to an absolutely awsome Domme that literally changed my life. In a mere seven weeks, she literally destroyed the walls I was hiding my true self behind. I am better, I am back. Through these experiences, I feel I am now a turly better Dom. Experiencing things from the other end of the whip gives new perspective to the mind of the submissive. While I will never be able to submit that way again, (Unless of coures the fates bring HER back into my life) I am no longer that guy I had become.  With that, as I have mentioned in my profile, I am NOT a sadist, but do understand how the pain and the act of submission can be so powerful to the submissive. How fullfilling it can be, and how truly important it can be to ones mental state.

With all that said, I am looking for submissives that need to have the sensation in order to feel. If I can bring back emotion to one who has buried it as I did, then I will be fulliflled as a Dom. I am not just wanting to beat of folks or am I just in it for sex. (those things I do admit are the icing on the cake)

I know that I can be the one that can do for others what was done for me and frankly I like the Karma that entails.

Besides, I love the noises and whimpers a submissive makes no matter how hard they try not to. I love when they enter that subspace in their minds, I love knowing I sent them there to their own personal Nirvana. With a submissive, I get mine, but orgasm is not what mine is about.

I am an energy feeder and a good sub in session will keep me going for a good while.

Gonna quit rambling here, If you are interested, please drop me a line. I do demand respect, and will give it in return.

Any scene activity will be discussed prior. I will not agree to meet for session right away. I will require a meeting on neutral ground. (I prefer meeting over coffee)

At this initial meeting I will be able to tell if I want to session or train. I am rather picky, but open to all types. I have no problem with any body type, sex, or age (as long as over 21) under 21 is a hard limit I will NOT cross. Period. For me, it is what is in your mind I am interested in. My only big show stopper, is you must be clean and smell good!