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I am searching for someone who can understand and appreciate who I am. I identify as a regular guy (an alpha male in bdsm terms) and hold an important position in my profession and am the Patriarch in my family (by family I refer to my daughter, my parents, cousins, and niece and nephew). I am the one they look to for help and guidance (be it financial or otherwise). I have no desire to let them in on the submissive side of my psyche, which I have only recently begun to come to grips with and start exploring. I seek a very real connection. Someone who can help me to understand both sides of myself. It is something I have trouble with at times. Yes I have desires and fantasies, but ultimately I just want to truly embrace my inner kink.
1/22/2013 7:40:47 PM
Can anyone shed light on exactly what happened to MsKaren aka MagnoliaBabe? I normally check on her journal when I sign in but now I see all this craziness. What happened? Does anyone know??
12/23/2012 8:41:20 AM
Being able to see whether or not someone you messaged has read it on this site is both a blessing and a curse. Sigh.
12/19/2012 6:39:24 AM
Sometimes it is very VERY hard to hold my tongue from ranting against some of the absolute morons on this site and their take on current events. I just know that once I start I'm going to end up with three pages of journal entry and honestly these people a) aren't worth it, and b) wouldn't get it anyway. Sigh.
12/16/2012 9:58:05 PM
Vanilla sex while enjoyable just really is not cutting it anymore. I think this weekend finally cemented that in my mind.
12/1/2012 8:07:00 PM
Funny how this universe aligns itself at times. I was just picking up some groceries when I noticed a CD case under the seat of my car. It was a remastered edition of Rush "Moving Pictures." But when I opened it up it had Tom Petty "Greatest Hits" inside. Considering the post I made just previous to this one I found it comforting in a way. And of course I popped it right in.
11/30/2012 10:21:53 PM
To quote Tom Petty: "the waiting is the hardest part..."
11/26/2012 8:45:16 PM
Some pathetic excuse for a human has the following in his journal: " ...what determines your character, and defines you as a person with a good heart and moral soul. To sum it up: it all boils down to your ability to feel empathy for people other than just yourself. That moral compass is the big difference between being human, or just being someone that exist for a brief moment of time before drifting off into oblivion." Then he posts a journal entry today that was totally classless making light of the suffering, turmoil, and death that is taking place in the Gaza Strip. Live by your own words you pile of refuse!
11/7/2012 3:36:33 AM
Finally had to "unfavorite" a journal poster I used to enjoy. I've come to realize that her stories are completely fabricated and her political views (and her hubby's) are conspiracy theorist at best, institutionally insane at worst. Just can't bring myself to read her craziness anymore.
10/25/2012 7:27:10 AM
This is for someone whose journal I read quite frequently. I hope you get to read this, as apparently you blocked me for reasons I have no idea after I Messaged you regarding a few of your posts. My response to your emails to me: Whoa whoa, I'm not lecturing or labeling you at all. I'm sorry if others do, or go out of their way to harass you. I would never, certainly would never create a separate account just to do so, that's horrible! Please be fair and look at it from a reader of your journals. You are often seemingly taking one side over the other. Why wouldn't someone then take that to mean you support that side? I'm willing to have an open discussion about it. I dont believe I have been anything but respectful in my messages to you. If that is somehow not the case you have my sincere apologies. I'm sorry you felt the need to block me. I'll still read your journals as I am a fan, but I have to say I think you overreacted. That's your right. Just disappointing.
7/3/2012 11:33:00 PM
Latest annoyance: people who post to their journal in a color so light that it makes the actual text near imperceptible. How is one supposed to read that??
7/3/2012 1:48:00 PM
I'm happily discovering there are some very cool people on this site and enjoying their correspondence. Sadly they are not exactly local! Oh well, baby steps, right?
7/3/2012 8:45:51 AM
One of the things I find myself enjoying on this site is the "recent journals" link. It is reassuring to read some of the posts from others all over the country. And some of the posts are very interesting to say the least! There are worlds within this world I never thought actually possible. It's hard to imagine myself within them! I take that back. I very much can imagine myself within them. The reality of it though is very scary. And yet...
7/2/2012 10:40:52 PM
Seriously, what is the deal with all of these fake profiles? I wonder if women searching for men deal with this?
7/2/2012 5:12:45 PM
I have uploaded photos but they haven't shown up on my profile as of yet. I'm happy to include them once correspondence has commenced.
7/2/2012 3:40:22 PM
I've been looking at the profiles on this site and I can't help being confused as to which are real and which are seemingly fake. I find it hard to believe someone interested in a real connection with someone would offer a yahoo address in their profile. Sadly that seems to be the majority of profiles here.