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SincereLady
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Hello.
I am new to this scene, but hopeful. I understand that even within this community there are variations on the traditional roles. I am writing this profile on the assumption that you are a submissive woman. In the hope that you and I both want the same thing out of a D/s relationship, let me share a bit of myself with you.
I will be a gentleman. This is to distinguish myself from the pack of assholes that call themselves dominant, but are really just assholes. Relationships, of any kind, are about respect. If one fails to respect the other party, even if (and especially when) one controls them, the relationship will fall apart. Being a gentleman towards you is a means of demonstrating my respect for you as a human being.
Let me explain what draws me to this scene. Trust. There is no higher trust than to place control of your life, even simply the sexual control, in the hands of another. I crave that trust, I want to fulfill it. I want to hear you cry out in pleasure and then, before you pass out in my arms, say, "thank you, Sir." Hear me out, I want control, I want power, I want to command and be obeyed...but the trust is what I treasure.
I am a nerd, with my own vanilla life. I would like to meet someone in my own age group willing to be a part of said vanilla life, if possible. Barring that, I am also looking for women with whom I could truly be 'friends with benefits'. I'm looking for a woman I can share myself with. I'm not a "hard" dom. For me, the greatest wonder in the world is a woman who gives herself entirely over to pleasure and finds joy. I want to bring her there. I'm hoping that, if you're still reading this, that you want me to bring you there.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. May your search be fruitful and fulfilling.
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Whelp, here I am in a new town logging into CM and wondering.
It's amazing how long it's been. Since I visited this site; since I played; since I touched another person's life meaningfully.
Heh. How melancholy. Anyhow, thank you for looking at my profile. Hopefully my words here are illuminating.
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So, I updated my profile to reflect my previous journal entry.
I've had some good discussions, thanks to this site. I'm hoping to have something more than just discussions, but if I just wanted random sex, I could sign up for one of those "get laid now" websites and get it over with.
I don't want to just get laid, I want to get laid, I want to get satisfactorily laid.
It's strange, this game we play on personals sites. Especially here. Who contacts whom? Who decides whether to continue communication? What are the proper protocols and procedures? For a community built around dominance and submission, there is a lot of power byplay in the meeting of others. Of course, that's part of the fun.
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So, I've been lurking for some time now. I posted a picture and have been attempting to determine the best way to present myself in this new environment. I have made a few decisions, mostly subconsciously.
Firstly, I will be a gentleman. Not only will this help me with my manners and mannerisms in non-internet related activities, but it will help distinguish me from the pack of assholes that call themselves dominant, but are really just assholes. Relationships, of any kind, are about respect. If you fail to respect the other party, even if (and especially when) you control them, the relationship will fall apart. Being a gentleman towards women looking to be dominated is a means of showing my personal respect for them as human beings.
I will not push a woman I do not own. I will take every step forward that I am invited to, but I will not take what is not offered. This requires some explaination. Offers come in many forms, but safe words and discomfort are to be understood and respected. A woman that struggles in a manner she knows is futile is a turn on; a woman that struggles and cries for stop in an obviously frightened voice must be heard, released, and comforted.
Finally, I would like to explain what draws me to this scene. Trust. There is no higher trust than to place control of one's life, even simply the sexual control, in the hands of another. I crave that trust, I want to fulfil it. I want to hear a woman cry out in pleasure and then, before she passes out in my arms, say, "thank you, Sir." Hear me out, I want control, I want power, I want to command and be obeyed...but the trust is what I treasure.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. May your search be fruitful and fulfilling.
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Alright, soon there will be a picture.
And eventually there will be more personal information in the profile.
For now, I'm just a ghost in the machine.
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