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| I've never been in a dominant-submissive relationship before, at least in the strict bdsm sense. I have had dominant sexual leanings for a long time, and its something I'd like properly to explore.
I am looking for a romantic partner, ie love, long term partnership. I am not sure how far Id like to go with d/s stuff, or how exactly it would look, but I think I am somewhat open there. But I thought I'd look here for that, because sexual compatibility is kinda key to any relationship.
Sexually, I am interested in bondage, dominance, role-play of various kinds, inflicting pain, control. Curious about 24/7, but only curious.
I think BDSM it's about more than power, I think its also about trust at a deep level and also generosity, it has a deeper expanisve emotional level which I think makes it ideal for exploration within the context of trust and especially love. Variety is also the spice of life, so sexually I do not want to get stuck in one place, whether it be kink or whatever. There's something to be said for some more sensual lovemaking for sure.
I am not really into the idea of causing humiliation at this stage at least. I have my boundaries, I just don't know exactly where the lines lie as yet.
Personal: I am 35. I think fairly good looking, kinda youthful looking. I am into music, a lot. Glitch, dubstep, ambient, different kinds of rock, folk, a whole spectrum of stuff.
Mellowing with friends or at home, getting out into nature, and going out for a meal, or a dance, basically the quality stuff of life.
I am good natured, empathic, relaxed, intelligent, humorous and a bit of a philosopher.
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