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Hetero Female Dominant, 38,  Manchester, United Kingdom
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I am a Dominant woman looking for new subs. I expect nothing less than respect from all my subs; if this is not forthcoming then the sub is no longer contacted.

I would class myself as a BBW, curvy and I am a lover of tattoos. If this is not for you then move on.

I am open to new experiences and enjoy pushing my own boundaries aswell as that of my subs....

If you don't like a strong and independant woman then walk away now..........

I need discretion due to my circumstances (married), this can make planning and play difficult. However if the chemistry is right nothing is impossible.........










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 Dominant Female


 United Kingdom

 5' 3"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Cages (Expert)

 Corsets (Expert)

 Female Supremacy (Expert)

 Heavy Metal Music

 Rock Music


 Art Galleries

 Flea Markets

 Movies (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)


 Anal Play


 Canes and Crops


 Genital Punishment


 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Fine Dining


 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 EMO Music


 Punk Rock Music



 Eighties Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Pop Music



 Show Tunes




 Amusement Parks


 Country Music

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Journal Entries:
3/26/2010 12:26:34 PM
Apologies for my non response over the past few weeks, complications in my vanilla life have made things a little difficult.  However I am back and will attempt to answer all messages as soon as I can. 

2/12/2010 4:15:55 AM
oh my first scammer!  how they really believe that they will find Christ here..surely not!  lol..this one hails from and shame to follow....

2/5/2010 7:40:40 AM

my sincere thanks to all who sent get well soon wishes.  the ones with cards and flowers especially appreciated (you know who you are..)....

1/30/2010 7:25:38 AM
I have decided a treat is in order to cheer me up from my current state of grumpiness.  With this in mind I have just booked my next tattoo at Legends and now have 3 glorious hours of delicious pain to look forward to.....yum!

1/27/2010 6:55:59 AM
well I am in need of some hugs and get well soon wishes...  :(  not feeling at all well today and it makes me grumpier than usual ! 

1/22/2010 3:22:39 PM
from the wonderful Belle de Jour....

  • When someone says:
    "I have too much respect for myself ever to do that."
    What they mean is:
    "My self-esteem is so fragile that stepping outside the mainstream would mess it up for life."

  • When someone says:
    "She's not even that good-looking."
    What they mean is:
    "This woman's choices make me uncomfortable but I don't have the intelligence to address that so will criticise her looks instead."

  • When someone says:
    "See? Other people in her family have problems. That explains everything."
    What they mean is:
    "In spite of the fact that all families have difficulties, I'm going to pretend otherwise in order to make an ad hominem attack."

  • When someone says:
    "Stories like this glamourise a trade that enslaves and kills women."
    What they mean is:
    "I don't actually know the difference between the separate issues affecting call girls, massage parlours, brothels, and streetwalkers, and I'm not going to bother finding out."

  • When someone says:
    "I wouldn't pay £300 for that."
    What they mean is:
    "I think a woman's value, sexual or otherwise, is entirely based on her looks."

  • When someone says:
    "I have similar factors in my life and didn't choose this route."
    What they mean is:
    "I am unfamiliar with the notion that free will more or less assures that people will makes decisions I would not have done."

  • When someone says:
    "If she liked the job so much why isn't she still doing it?"
    What they mean is:
    "I don't believe people can, or should, change direction in their lives without self-hatred and regret."

  • 1/14/2010 12:45:14 PM
    Why does the pleasure of being tattooed fade so quickly at times?  After my last one just before Christmas, I find myself yearning for my next one.....this is turning into a very expensive hobby...

    12/26/2009 12:03:16 PM
    Hope everyone's festive season is going well......

    Best wishes for 2010


    12/4/2009 12:53:47 PM
    For the minority out there who feel that rudeness is acceptable please be warned that it isn't. 

    I know that I may come across as nice and quite tolerant but do not abuse my good will...........

    10/17/2009 6:17:10 AM
    ok this is a small request.  I love the fact that people want to chat BUT please introduce yourself first!  If I don't know you, or haven't spoken previously there is little chance of your request being accepted.....

    10/12/2009 2:57:35 AM

    the profile of the "DOMME" beautiful21, is a fake profile written by a nigerian male.  this has been verified after much messaging, by e-mail, and by CM.  the e-mail address has been verified on as coming from lagos, nigeria.

    also, when the sub who informed me of this was checking his facebook contacts, the same e-mail address showed up as a nigerian male named owonibi taiwo, to whom "she" had instructed him to send money to as a "charity donation"

    "she" claims to worl for a non governmental organisation, but when pressed refused to name which one.  also instead of saying "i will" or "we will" they say "i would" or " we would"


    9/14/2009 9:11:24 AM
    Please note that I am no longer taking applications for subs. My thanks to all who have applied.  I am still happy to talk and make friends..... 

    9/8/2009 7:56:47 AM
    Can any Mistresses or Masters out there help me.... I am looking for a playroom/dungeon to hire.... It has to be local.  Please let me know.  Thank you.

    8/20/2009 10:19:21 AM
    just a little niggle that I have at the moment....I am not looking for a little boy to serve my interests if you do not understand that I am the one in charge!  If  I want you to have my contact details I will give them to you.....

    If I do not pass these onto you it means that I do not want you to chat to me by msn or any other means outside of the CM site...

    I do hope that is clear to all the subbie kiddies out there...just because you feel brave to be exchanging mail with me, don't get ideas above your station which is of course the lowest point: the floor!!!!!!

    8/4/2009 7:15:56 AM
    just a quick update:  I am finally getting better!  Thank you to everyone who has sent me kind messages wishing me a speedy recovery. 

    7/29/2009 12:43:41 PM
    To any subs who feel the need to contact me even if they are bound to another Mistress - DON'T.  Not only is this disrespectful to your Mistress but also to me. 

    If contact continues I will contact your Mistress and let her deal with you accordingly.

    7/27/2009 12:22:27 PM
    thank you to everyone who has sent me messages.  Please be aware that I have a very nasty cold at the moment and am trying to get better.  Please bear with me, I will get back to you.....

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