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lalousept
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Que2NKatt
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smucha25
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Mrboots
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Greetings,
I am not new to the scene, I have 10 plus years experience, I have been a member of a majority of the BDSM clubs in Chicago. I am not a Pro. I am not a Service Domme. I will not tolerate a "do-me" or a wanna-be. I have no use for those who are not local, unless they are providing airfare and lodging!
Life is to short to waste on those who truly do not understand their place! That place would be wherever I choose.
I seek a submissive, NO CROSSDRESSER. *UPDATE* *you need not be bi-sexual.* Wt. proportioned to ht., intelligent, with the ability to communicate intelligently. Understand that one may be intelligent but be unable to communicate. he must be able to learn quickly and possess a variety of skills, if married a flexible schedule is a must.
I am willing to consider a novice if he is sincere. Do not, I repeat do not, provide Me with a list of your needs, I'm not interested! This does not mean that your needs will not be considered but I am more interested in how you will/can serve Me. Age is not an issue but maturity is! If this is an experiment for you, don't bother! I will not micro-manage you, if you are unable or unwilling to take care of yourself, how can you take care of Me? I will not be your mother.
I will read every email and every profile, whether I respond or not will be based on the content of your email. Remember, this will provide a picture, if you will, of who you are.
I am a proud member/supporter/attendee of BLACK BEAT. Search "Black BEAT" for more information.
Save the date
Black BEAT 2009
August 14th - August 16th
PEACE
Ms Lash
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To all who have inquired and offered well wishes, thank you!
To those of you who have even offered to assist Me during My recovery, thank you!
To those of you who let Me know that they would be waiting anxiously for Me to get well so I could do X,Y & Z to them, you may NOT kiss My ass! LOL But you can go play in traffic :-)
So, I'm headed to Jamaica on the 12th, My girlfriends just love that "kinky" stuff, I go to My podiatrist and tell her the toe she operated on hurts. She says oh, it's the screw I put in, I'll have to take it out, I'm like WTF! LOL Yesterday I go see her and she says the stitches can come out Thursday, I'm leaving that day at O'dark hundred! No problem she says, I'll tell you how to take them out when you get there!!
Now, I am a Sadist. I can and will make people cry...but I DO NOT DO PAIN! I'll fight the biggest guy in the room, if you see Me in a fight with a bear, help the bear, cause I'm going to kick his azz! But inflicting discomfort on Myself....damn! LOL
A Woman's gotta do what a Woman's gotta do...sigh.
Anyway, this will be My first time at Hedo 3 and one of their theme nights is fetish...so My question is, how can I maintain My Domme-ness and not burn the hell up in My leather? I mean even if I wear chaps with a thong I'm still going to be hot....decisions, decisions...
Then there's the Pimp & Ho night, of course I'm going as a pimp..anyone wanna meet me there and be My ho? lol
On a serious note, this has been a very long year and I NEED a vacation! Not just want but need....!
I'm looking for a slamming New Year's Eve Party, My girls and I are looking to dress up and paint the town red! Any ideas? Dancing must be include, R&B or house (house head here). Prize for a winner...(wicked laugh)
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So, here I am 7 or so weeks away from My shoulder surgery and I am besieged with request from the ever eager "subbie"!
Please don't think they are offering to assist Me in My healing...no..they are seeking spankings, paddling, strap-on, bondage...the list goes on!
So, here's what I'm thinking, they read the profile (one hand in lap) and quickly send an email. Not once do they read the journal. Which says to Me they are not in the least bit interested in ME, just My arm or My silicon dick! LOL
One such email was fairly well written and long. he had spent sometime with a Domme and enjoyed all the wonderful things She did to him! But She had the nerve to go have surgery which will have her in recovery for a year! The bitch! How dare She deprive him of his joy! So do I think I could pick up Her slack?!!! F*ck NO!
Poor baby!
My doctor says I'm to lift no more than 5 pounds, I can not mop, vacuum, pull weeds or even reach around to scratch My back!
My surgery went from 30 mins. to 3 1/2 hrs. the shoulder is pretty f*ucked up folks! So toddle off and find another arm, I'm down and out for awhile!
Peace....lol
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So, I had rotator cuff surgery three weeks ago. The one trainee I had was working out so very well..then he disappeared! I guess the Life monster got him, but how fucking rude to not call! Since I did tell him that if life got in the way all he need do was call and say "life", he could then decide to explain or not, but he had to tell Me that he would or would not be returning! So he is history. his loss.
Now I read and respond to My email and what do I find?
I find emails from the do-me squad! When I explain that I'm unable to execute their laundry list of kinks, they say they'll get back to Me when I'm well! WTF!
What exactly are they thinking? Do they really think I will consider them for anything?! Yep they sure do! LOL
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Time to tell the truth, who's really on CM looking for kinky sex? I mean you really don't care at all about BDSM,you just want to get laid!
I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I just think you folks should just say that right up front! |
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Into each life some rain must fall. It's been fraking raining for two days now! Enough already!! My life is full now thank you Rain Goddess!
I will NOT make that NY trip there are a couple of reasons for that, maybe later.
If you were a looking for a submissive what would be at the top of your list of requirements and why?
At the top of My list is intelligence. I must be able to engage in mental exercises. |
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Is there anyone in NY who would enjoy having Me visit? I had considered visiting in March and making a trip to Paddles.
I have started a group on , Black BEAT Chicago Munch Group. We will be meeting once a month at a local play space. I hope to host classes, presentations, round tables,etc.
If you are a member of FL go join the group! |
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So, everyone must be living in the ideal relationship!
So why do I get so much mail?
Mail from those seeking to be My slave, did I forget to mention I'm not looking for a slave? I am not looking for a 24/7 live in. I do not want anyone to relocate for Me.
I do not want the responsibilty of seeing to an adults everyday life.
I am not a micro manager. I believe everyone must serve a purpose, but Mine will not be to run your life.
Perhaps I am misunderstanding the requests. It is possible. If so, please enlighten Me! Knowledge is power and I want all the power I can get! |
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Someone call the police I want to report a theft!
Oh wait, I am the police..some idiot stole the fraking sun right outta the fraking sky!!! WTF??!!
It was there yesterday, I saw it. I felt it. Somebody must pay! Someone must suffer!
Any volunteers?
Step right up My pretties...I won't hurt you............much! :-)
*CRACK* |
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I woke up to the sun this morning! What a wonderful thing to see...I'm almost in heaven!
So, I'm looking for questions and comments; if you are involved in a BDSM relationship that is not balanced what are you doing to keep the peace?
By balanced I mean where one partner wants/needs more than the other.
For example; the sub/bottom wants bondage everyday, the Domme/Top only wants to play a couple of times a month.
What about the Top/Domme who has been burned out by the overwhelming needs of the bottom/sub? Is there a work around?
Speak your mind please. |
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If you know all 4 seasons: almost winter, winter, still winter and road
construction, you live in Chicago ..
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It's snowing....afrakingain! Sigh.
Well, I've changed My mind again about the theme for the garden party it will be set in the 20's and it will be a murder mystery. I love Art Deco!
I'm also going to take a trip to New York. I've been there before, can't say I enjoyed My last trip much, but My first trip was awesome! It was a grammer school graduation present from My aunt. What I remember most was seeing Pearl Bailey and Cab Calloway in Hello Dolly! The only other stage event that has topped that to date is seeing Ben Vereen as the wizard in Wicked.
There's this subbie boy here on CM who has requested that I visit so many times that I said WTF! he will be making arrangements for providing entertainment and getting us in Paddles. Yes I said us, My guy/bottom is going with, going to see about getting him into some bondage club there. When he was there once before he went. Does anyone know the name?
Who wants to put together a meet and greet for Me? |
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I hate the cold. Give me the sun damn it!
Now that that's outta My system, I'll move on.
Who out there is really reading this besides york? Drop Me an email and let Me know.
To those of you in other states AND other countries I would love for you to explain just how do you see yourself being useful to Me? USEFUL is My favorite word in the whole world! The act of someone being USEFUL is My second favorite act, Me giving pain is My first <EG>
So, someone from a state that's thousands of miles away wants a spanking...WTF?! Talk about long distance, I wonder what the rates are for that!
I really do understand where you guys are coming from but since I have a job, for now, I can't just up and travel to you and no one offered to pay My way...lol. Just gimme, gimme and do You want Me. Which leads Me to think that they are NOT reading My profile.
So, I went back and read it, sounded pretty clear to Me! Reading is FUNDAMENTAL. |
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Well My trip was awesome! Ms Max Rulz is the perfect hostess. We ate well and played hard the only thing I could have asked for was someone to give Me a pedicure.
I have decided to go with the 1940's for the garden party, it was such a glamourous time. The hunt will begin... now! I'm looking for competent people who have no need to be micro managed. Smart, careful, hard working, fun, imaginative, with a set of skills that will make Me look even more fantastic than I do now! More later. |
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Well breakfast today was better, I felt up to cooking.
Packing is done and I am so ready for this little trip!
I spent My day researching clothing styles of the 1920's-1940's. I plan to have a garden party this summer and I'm trying to decide which era I should do...I so love Art Deco. But I look fantastic in the 50's style of clothing. Oh, well.
I wonder if I'll find some good subbies before the party? LOL "Good" is relative now isn't it?
If I gave a play party for My retirement would all the folks who contact Me from out of the state come? |
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Here it is the day after My foot surgery and I sit eating cold cereal because there's no good little subbie slaveing away at a hot stove on My breakfast, what kinda shit is that??!! LOL
One more day till I fly outta here to B-Mo to celebrate with My O'Kink Family, the most important day in history!
I hear there's gonna be a small play party yeah! Since I can't walk well or stand for long I think I'll have those lined up to be singletailed by Me run into the whip. Kinda like that song that says, "I'm gonna make your face beat up My hand." I'm going to make some asses beat up My whip! LOL
A little subbie I abused in the most SSC way, some years ago inquired of Me should there be some large measure of fear associated with My upcoming retirement thus giving Me more time to practice My craft. Well I don't need any practice per se, so if I didn't know what I was doing, then yes, one should be afraid. The only ones who need fear Me are those who are men, with 2 legs, 2 arms, a head, torso, etc. Oh wait, that's all you boys! LOL Beatings are provided with love and laughter, lets not forget the tears!
Later
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Here we are in a brand new year. Being alive to see a Black President is awesome! I will be heading to Baltimore for the Inauguration, couldn't get in to DC :-(
I'll be staying with My Sister, Max Rulez O'Kink from Black Beat and the party will be onnnn!
My Black Beat Family is wonderful!
This year will be My last year at work, I retire Oct.15th! The party is the 16th..lol I am the fuck outta there!
I ended the old year with a very elegant Cocktail Party, fancy finger food, china, real glasses, candle light, Christmas lights, table cloths and napkins! Everyone in their holiday finery, singing carols, and listening to jazz.
Folks are still talking about My party! And yes, I did all the work, no subbie available.
I have always enjoyed entertaining so now I'm going to have time, I say I'm bringing "classy" back!
My next party will be a Garden Party complete with floral table clothes and napkins, fancy dressing, big sun hats for the Ladies and white linen for the guys. I have a huge yard with tons of flowers and the house is Victorian. Can you see the picture?!
Perhaps by then I will have found a subbie who can #1 keep up with Me and #2 doesn't need to be micro managed....god I hate that!
Continuing My exercise routine and eating better has seen the good bye of 5 pounds! 5 to 10 more to go, damn I look good! I stopped smoking last year and that so fucked Me up! But I did it and I'm still smoke free, but the really good thing about that is I didn't hurt, maime or kill anyone during the process!
Along with retirement, this year hopefully will bring the opening of My cafe, A Healthy Difference, God willing and the creek don't rise, it'll happen.
Later
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So, you find this site, spend some time coming up with a clever name, one that says what you're about, checking all the likes and dislikes....getting all excited....then you do not write one thing about yourself!
Funny how that works.
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